Hey Adam,
Just want to say a Big thanks for answering my post
1) It has really helped me. But I am confused? You see, you said not to Act like a "Player" > I quote you:
"it causes way more problems to the guys game. The best vibe is honest, sincere and trusting. As long as you're not beta while doing so you will be in a far better position than the “player” guy as the girls you're around won't be worried about their reputations being damaged as a result of being with you and they wont be afraid that they could be just another number to a collection of female conquests. Trust me, you do not want to be known as a player in your social life let alone your professional one."
Now, I see these younger guys > let's say on facebook ACTING like Badboys (players) - their general behavior is more unpredictable and dangerous..BUT they seem to get alot of girls after them. Now, I’m an intelligent guy (and a nice guy) but I like to experiment with trying to improve my game > so I have tried the Badboy style.
Won't I get FEWER girls from just acting normal? I mean there will be no dangerous/unpredictable/mysterious Vibe that PLAYER/Bad boy guys give off that makes them a real challenge to girls so gets girls fighting over them?
2) I am trying to go back to basics (like you did) and REALLY understand Attraction. I would be REALLY Grateful if you could break this down for me!!
I have read the MMethod so have always found Comfort to mean > the "Next" step > after busting on her and getting her attracted.
(i.e Attract - Build Comfort - Seduce)
To me, your formula looks different? Are you Assuming attraction by going straight in with Comfort?
Your attraction formula is: (C-R)+Q+S = A
Where: C = Comfort, R = Rapport, Q = Qualification, S = Sexual Escalation, A = Attraction
BTW on one of your videos, Mehow said your formula was "Rapport-Rapport"..
so would it be ok (correct) to translate/rewrite it to this?
(R-R)+Q+S = A
Or even this?:
(R-R)+C+S = A (Where C = comfort (and this includes qualification)
* And with your formula: + sexual escalation = kino escalation that goes throughout right?
This PU guy tried to answer my query with this response (BUT I AM CERTAIN this answer is NOT Correct in its entirety> or is it?):
"Afc Adam Lyons formaula is a watered down version of the first 3 steps (the attraction phase)of MM
* Comfort (social comfort is achieved by reaching the social hook point) = A1
* - Rapport (negging) = some of A2... See more
* + Qualification = A3
* + sexual escalation = kino escalation that goes throughout.
This fomula is only the beginning.
No, it would not be correct to write it that way because that starts off as an AFC and then takes away some AFC-ness, just to go into comfort? Thats a fast track to the friend zone.
Start as a alpha, end as an alpha - never be beta. never."
I would GREATLY Appreciate your response to this (even comparing your formula to the MMethod so my mind can get some rest! lol)
Thanks
Man this is a long one. I'll try to go through it as best as I can.
1.I did a whole talk recently on Player/Bad Boy types of guys. A study was recently done that says the type of girls that are attracted to player guys are Psychotic girls. If you want a psychotic girl (think girls with daddy problems and on medication) then go for the bad boy thing. If you want normal extroverted girls then work on being a leader, provider, and (heaven forbid!) nice guy. And as I said earlier, this is scientifically proven through psychological studies.
2.We are not assuming attraction with Comfort. Attraction comes with Breaking Rapport and spreads with Qualification. Comfort can be broken down as trust and rapport. When you Break Rapport you want to keep the trust there. So start off by buidling trust and rapport, then shake things up my messing with the rapport yet keeping the trust, then go into qualification which is deep rapport. Escalate throughout the whole thing and you're building serious attraction.
CHAT
i hope u doing great. look man i want u 2 help me with something so i'm going 2 make this quick ,i met a girl and we hang out 4 a couple off times and wee hit it off ,then she went 4 traveling around the world and touring ,so now i see her only on facebook and then she told me that she likes me and i am not like any guy she knew before and stuff like that and seriously i like her 2 she's beautiful girl and funy 2 soo why not, so i want 2 ask u how i can move foreword and take the next step or what can i do with her and let's not 4get that i only see her on facebook so i hope u help ur man caz i know the pickup stuff but don't know what 2 do next;)