well im planning to invite a hb to the movie theater when i met her she asked me: "you have a lot of money right?" i i didnt know what to answer so avoid the question anyway i picked her up at a shopping mall (she was looking at expensive women's shoes) and i was able to get a numberclose by telling her several bs dhv stories i never bragged about being a rich boy i dont know where she got the idea but im affraid that when i make the phone call to invite her to the movie theater she will make me pay for her stuff and i dont want to pay and dont know what to said without making me look like a cheap chump

well during the call be FUN, just laugh it up, have a good time. When it comes time to set the plans for the date, I will conclude with something along these lines:

dw3llz - No you're a fun girl right?

Hb - yeah!

dw3llz - And you love challenges huh?

HB - of course!

dw3llz - last question, are u smart and confident?

hb - for sure

dw3llz - How bout we play a game to see who pays for the movie?

hb - hm... ok
[Enter 5-lies routine]
dw3llz - I bet you can't lie to me 5 times in a row!

hb - wait what?

dw3llz - ok heres the deal. all you have to do is lie to me 5 times. I'll ask you simple questions, like what color is the sky. And you'll answer.....

Hb - (she understands) purple. (or she doesn't) blue. (if she doesn't explain it again)

dw3llz - Ok, here we go. What day is it?

Hb - blah.

dw3llz - What time is it?

Hb - blah.

dw3llz - What color is the sun?

Hb - blah

dw3llz - (sounding confused) uhhh... how many was that now?
[If she falls for it]
Hb - 3

dw3llz - haha gotcha kid
[If she doesn't fall for it]
Hb - 2000

dw3llz - (sound a little mad)haha damnt!! ur good! u played this before haven't you?

Hb - lol nope! first time

dw3llz - gotchu with the last one! looks like you're paying

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That's a pretty cool idea. Remember though that if it's a small bill you pay but if it's medium or large you split it. That way you don't look like a cheap chump

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Fox

I giggled.

I love it!

no, she pays for her, you pay for you

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Every Saint has a Past, Every Sinner has a Future

Now going dutch is a fine idea, but I find there is a lot more enjoyment in both parties if a bet is placed on the event, and one of you ends up paying for both. When some1 pays for both parties it alludes to the fact that you are out TOGETHER. By each of you paying separate, you are separating yourself from her.

Don't be afraid to make bets! It shows a little adventure along with some confidence! A dangerous combination when combined with a great night/day out with her. I find women LOVE betting on things, even when the odds are stacked in your favor. Personally, I bet on almost everything we do.

dw3llz - "I bet I can read your mind."

HB - "Bull shit!"

dw3llz - "Ok, if I can read your mind, you can pay for dinner/tickets/popcorn/watever. If I can't ill pay."

HB - "hahah... good luck!"
[Enter psychic number routine] [If you haven't seen this done, please google or youtube it. Mystery has a great way of influencing the mind to always pick 3 on the first. He uses the same method to get the subject to pick 7 on the next one, but it has about a 50% with me, so I just do the first.]
dw3llz - "Pick a number 1... through 4. Dont say it! Just imagine it!"

Hb - "got it"

dw3llz - "ok... im thinking.... 3!"

hb - "OMG NO WAY!"

dw3llz - "Ha, it's sort of a hidden talent of mine "

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-dw3llz

Pure textbook game, love it! It never lets you down.

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You WANT to make a change.
You CAN make a change.
You WILL make a change.

Ambitious to be succesfull => Shyler

dwellz, i was talking to the person that said you should pay if its not too much.

your idea is fine

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Every Saint has a Past, Every Sinner has a Future

This is what Style said at one of his seminars. I hear you though and I think dwellz's idea is great.

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Fox

sure i could pay for some stuff for her BUT ONLY after ive dated her several times im not going to pay for everything to a women ive just met that would be DLVing myself

deangelo also is not a big fan about paying for her stuff

you sure you want to us ethe movies to pick up??

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I'm not actually Braddock. I'm only his friend.

the 5 question game works a treat, seriously use it man. she will fall for it and in my personal opinion go halves. dont seem like a total cheap skate haha

neos

well i think that the first thing you both buy (let's say a ticket), you should both pay for your own. I don't think its wrong that you buy her something along the way (let's say an ice cream or a drink) just don't let her take advantage of you. And if she tries I think you should let her know that you're on to her. Let her know that you can see what's going on. At least that's what I would do (and have done).

I've taken a number of my first dates out to the movies, it's not a bad place to start. Movies can help generate emotions that we aren't really aware of at the time. Dinner For Schmucks leaves you with a feel good feeling. The Other Guys leaves you laughing hysterically even out of the theatre. As long as the movie you take her to see doesn't completely suck, she will come out with an emotion that she relates to you, even though it has nothing to do with you. I take the time during a movie to chat with her a BIT (too much will ruin everything). Sometimes if I'm feeling it I'll even reach over, turn her head to me, and kiss her right then and there.

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Firstly, movie dates suck. They're trite and boring.

Secondly, if its a date, the man should pay. Now I'm not saying to foot the bill for a five-course lobster dinner, but a movie ticket? You don't want to look cheap.

If you are just casually hanging out then splitting it is fine. However when you "hang out" be careful that you do not let the encounter slip towards the friendly territories.

Oh and I love the little texting bet, but keep in mind that it will only work once.