I decided to open a few sets whilst out shopping yesterday. My inspiration came from a recent Jeremy Soul advertisment. I've decided to make an effort to try & start conversations with random women whilst i'm out & about.

I know this is pretty lame but i figured i'd just stop some hot randoms & maybe ask for directions to start with. I managed to do this with three different HB'S.

My aim is to try & do this at least twice per week. I know asking for directions is weak but i think it could help in gathering some momentum. Any suggestions on how to transition from asking directions?

Ask directions to a fake location and then stack it away through the conversation.

PUA: I'm looking for the centurion pub
HB: Sorry don't know it
PUA: It may not be called that it could be something to do with it. The legionnaire or something...
HB: Nope can't help you...
PUA: Ok, well I need your help then. I want to take some friends to a pub round here. Do you work or live in the area?
HB: Work.
PUA: Perfect, I'm looking for a pub that....

Then stack into something that she can start talking about.

Frankly, from what I've been told, going direct is a lot more effective.

I think your right about being direct. It seems to make sense to state your intentions. It's just growing the balls to get it done.

Was on my way to work this morning & managed to get an approach under my belt. Nothing special in fact it was pretty lame but a step in the right direction non the less.

HB: Giving eye contact which i match & hold. She smiles.

ME: I smile back & say "hi".

ME: What line of work do you do around here? (afc?)

HB: Custome Services just over there.

ME: Started rambling on a bit about work then said have a good day.I was not looking to take the interaction anywhere i was just opening for practise sake. Any suggestions, ideas on how to have handled this better?

If you were making eye contact and she smiles that's an approach invitation. try to avoid work based topics. There may have been an opportunity to number close, instant date ('Let's grab a coffee before work') or set up a meeting for later that day depending on time.

Hard to say without having been there.

could have tried:

PUA: How are you?
HB: Good. You?
PUA:...I'm an 8. I would be a 9 but some chick took my favourite work out t-shirt two days ago
HB: She stole your T-shirt?
PUA: Oh come on, you can't tell me you don't have some poor guy's shirt that you've taken at the back of your wardrobe! lol

So i was out & about the other day in Town having a hair cut & buying some clothes. Whilst waiting to be served at one of the stores i visited i happened to notice a rather attractive young HB standing in front of me.She was shopping for underpants with her son & could not help but notice what ridiculous taste he had. Bright psychedelic under garments are really not my thing.

ME; Awsome choice buddy!
HB; Smiling, I know i'll have to wear sun glasses to wash them.

I noticed lots of ioi's & her body language was screaming out for me to esculate biut thats exactly the problem, I didn't i just kind of froze & let the opportunity slip by. She even stopped on the way out hoping that i'd approach. Time to grow some balls i say. Opening with witty situational stuff is not a problem it's that transition.

ANY SUGGESTIONS?

Here's a few things i like:

ME: Hey do u know where X is?
HB: Yep, it's ...
ME: nice, you're my new personal guide!

If she's into it turn into cocky-mode and go from there.

One thing that also works is spray 2 different parfumes onto each arm. then go and ask women their opinions. found my new parfume this way actually. u can use the same line there, if she like's it she's your new personal parfume consultant, if she doesn't -> "i don't think this relationship's going to work"

Let me hear how you're doing!

I like the little aftershave gambit I'll have to try that one out sometime.

I'd have liked to have gone more direct, maybe with something like; "I think your really nice, maybe we should get to know each other & find out if we get along." Any recomendations there?

I tried to close my neighbour this morning, she kicked dirt in my face & knocked me back. lol
It's all feed back anyway so whatever! It's only taken me four years.She is more of a friend but i was feeling mischievous.

Anyway, I want to start going direct & would love some tried & tested approach suggestions. I'm definately ready to step up & bite the fu***** bullet.

DO NOT USE THE WORD 'NICE'!!!!

It's a throw away word with no meaning and it projects: "I'm just an average blah guy with nothing to offer who doesn't know what he wants, has no physical or psychic authority, and is afraid of you"

Here is the direct gambit you will use:

*Run up to a girl in the street and plant yourself about 3-4 meters infront of her as she walks towards you, big smile, feet planted shoulder width apart, hands open and about waste height, start talking in slow audible even tones*

PUA: 'Hi! I know you get this all the time, but I think you're stunning and wanted to introduce myself' *put your hand out and smile* 'I'm Constant'
HB: OMG! Thank you!
PUA: So, who are you?

Alternatively:

PUA: 'Hi, I saw you over here and think you have this confident walk and grace, so I wanted to say hi. I'm Constant" *shake hand*
HB: 'Oh wow, thanks!'
PUA: So who are you?

Using the word "nice" isn't always that bad. Especially when you are in the attraction phase, telling her that she is a nice girl puts her off the frame and shows that you are not a creepy AFC going after her beauty. Then if she is interested, she will try to escape the imaginary friend zone you set up there by qualifying herself to you.

Perhaps it works for you but in my opinion there are so many other things you can say other than nice.

At A1, i think it's a definate no to using the word.
At A2, you may consider it a negative complement.
At A3, it could be part of the "release" of the bait-hook-release qualification method.

Even in comfort there's 10,000 other things to say that don't involve the word 'nice'. Story telling is a more effective way of building rapport: sharing information and listening to her's and then discussing it.

I disagree that making comments about how you perceive her, specifically as you've explained it, can be a good way to build rapport.

I totally agree with what your saying about how the word “NICE” can deliver the wrong message on a subconscious level. I can also see how it would be effective in A2 & A3 too, which is worth remembering.
“GOOD SKILLS – GOOD SKILLS”

Ok, You really got me thinking about what I want. I’m ready to answer that question now. I want phone numbers, instant dates, sex & day 2’s.
I like you opener & I will take your advice. Thank you!!
I will, over the next four months concentrate on developing my” DAY GAME” until I have built a new layer of invaluable experience which I will always be able to tap back into. I will abolish the fear factor & replace with positive experiences.
My next post will be FRESH from the front line. TO THE TRENCHES!!!