I would imagine that it is pretty much a fine line between playful and hurtful? Surely this sort of thing teasing etc its not every women's cup of tea surely? I mean just because you do it doesn't mean this will work every time does it?

But surely teasing and neging etc will not always be successful. As I would imagine girls will act differently. I have neged before in a friendly way and they have simply blocked me from whatever chat feature I'm using.

Negging online will just get in you in a world of trouble man. Until you have negging down in real life, don't attempt it online. Heck, I don't neg online at all. I tease pretty heavily, but I don't neg

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The friend zone is a sad, desolate place. There are only two ways out. Alcohol and psychotic jealousy.

I'd say go for the latter. Be yourself, be confident, and don't give her the time of day. Turn your attention towards other prospects. Eventually she will start to second-guess her decision to reject you.

kezia talks about the 'nice guy' bland forgettable and replaceable, basically the nice guy doesnt challenge her and he always agree with her. once youve been put in the friend zone its difficult to get out of it, ross jeffries describes it perfectly the 'friend' is basically one of her girlfriends with a penis, she is basically saying to you not only do i not want to have sex with you i dont want you having any sexual thoughts around me!

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Why would it? Might be a odd think to ask but why would it? I tease loads and they seem to enjoy that lol.

The problem is that you cannot convey tone or body language in an online interaction. The playful nature of most negs is lost, because 90% of women will read a neg thats typed up and sent over AIM or something and interpret it as not only mean, but incredibly rude. It's best to save the negging for in person interaction where you can say it in a way that shows your are being playful.

See too many people take things to seriously or don't understand it properly, there's a difference between teasing and negging.

In person, you can get away with a lot more, build more attraction, because the tone of your voice, the way things are said and most importantly your body language.

Sure some women you speak to may enjoy what your doing, but no doubt you'll come across some women you want to interact with that don't take it the way you want them to.

They say there is a thing line between success and failure, there's a thin line here too.

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Ok may I ask something.

I just came back from holiday in Monaco last Thursday, I shagged a numbe rof rich spoilt girls - it was awesome. This girl I like asked me today how my holiday was - I said it was good. She pestered me - I told her to stop it.

She will ask me again tomorrow - should I just tell her the truth that I drank loads, ate loads, took a shitload of drugs, laughed loads, had a brilliant fucking time and I shagged a bunch of rich spoilt girls.

Would that not put her off - emphasis on the i shagged a bunch of rich girls? I want to tell her all that seeing as if she said that to me - i would want her more and maybe that will get the girl - jealous

I actually did all the above - so it is the truth.

Or should I just go with the above line but without the shagging bit?

Tell her you had fun, no need to mention the shagging bit is there? If you plan on shagging her again in the future you'd damage your chances by doing that, she wouldn't want to be just a piece of meat in her mind, although she was to you.

So let her know it was great, enjoyable, you did a lot of things, and hope to again.

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