Good evening!

This will be my first substantial post on this forum in a long, long time. I've recently hurtled headfirst back into game and I've found I'm better than ever; this is something I've discovered recently and I'd like to share it with you guys.

I have discerned that perhaps the single largest reasons a lot of guys don't get kiss closes, or get laid is because they simply do not pull the trigger.

It's that simple.

They just don't pull the trigger.

I urge each and every man who reads this article to do this:


Pull the trigger.

Even if you don't feel like it's right, even if you don't feel like you CAN...

Pull the trigger.


There's an attitude I take towards AA...

Whether you approach or not, you will likely be doing the same thing in 30 minutes time. The only difference is that you may or may not have the satisfaction of having opened a set and possibly had success with it.

On pulling the trigger...

If you pull the trigger, there is a chance that in 20 minutes time, you will be inside that girl. If you don't there is NO CHANCE of that happening.


It's just simply not an option to back down. You HAVE to go for it. Of late, I've found that the two differences between me getting laid and not getting laid have been sexual framing & pulling the trigger.

The method I use to make the move, as such, is the following:

You're gonna want her sat down (on a sofa) or laid down (on a bed). You can do it stood up as well, but it works better like that. After building some light kino, maybe a shoulder massage or something, whatever, you're gonna very overtly move into her; almost climb on top of her.

You're gonna move your face really close to her neck and shoulder at once side; she'll be able to feel your breath. At this point, she will probably FREEZE. Her whole body will freeze and she won't say anything. Smell her shoulder and breathe her in; make a satisfied 'mm' noise. Then begin, very lightly at first (but with some light application of tongue), to kiss her neck and shoulder.

This ^ is such an overtly sexual come on, but in a subtle, gradual sort of way, that it is most definitely a pull of the trigger but you're minimising your chance of a blowback.

After kissing her neck and shoulder, you can start to move your hands over her body, squeezing and pressing your nails into her skin; eventually, it should be super super easy to kiss close her, if you haven't already. I have found recently, though, that the kiss close and the trigger pull happen at the same time; begin with the neck, kiss her lips and then initiate sexual contact.

I hope this helps some people. Any questions, hit me up

Skylark

You can make it even easier than that. For me, pulling the trigger is being obvious with what I want. I want to kiss this girl, I'll position myself for it. I want sex, I'll kiss and arouse the girl. Pulling the trigger is really just being selfish and focusing on what you want and taking the steps to get there. What do I want? What to I need to do to get there? Odds of rejection and shit like that don't factor in because I'm focused on me.

Yeah, that's essentially it.

Thanks for the advice. Today I got myself lined up with a situation where I'm gonna have to pull the trigger on Monday (when I'll have the girl isolated). It's usually not a problem for me, but I would like to be smoother about it.

I was able to get this girl in class to let me rub her inner thigh during a movie we were all watching in summer school. I had her breathing heavy, but I couldn't obviously kiss close in public (although it was dark). She is coming to my place on Monday, so I gotta fire at least a round off.

Oh, and EDIT: Sexual framing is the shit. I literally read about it the night before and when I tried it I was like, "Oh...my...fucking...God."

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Yeah, sexual framing really blows the doors off in terms of what you can achieve. Glad to hear you're having some success man.