i randomly found an ad of a really cute girl saying that she's looking for a relationship. in the ad it said a lot of things about her and i was like damn thats perfect.

so i emailed her and here is the convo (start from bottom):

Date: Tue, 10 Aug 2010 23:42:23
From: me
Subject: Re: Hey
To: her
Well then, give me your number and I'll text you when I get some time off.

From: her
To: me
Sent: Tue, August 10, 2010 11:29:26 PM
Subject: RE: Hey

helll yaaah

Date: Tue, 10 Aug 2010 23:21:15
From: me
Subject: Re: Hey
To: her

no silly! I don't judge by looks, especially over a photo. See I don't know you, but from what I've read about you, you seem to be a positive and fun person. Are you a fun person to be around with?

From: her
To: me
Sent: Tue, August 10, 2010 10:52:43 PM
Subject: RE: Hey

no no no you did not hurt me..

Just wondering why you might catagorize me as a bad girl, do I look like one?

Date: Tue, 10 Aug 2010 22:49:41
From: me
Subject: Re: Hey
To: her

But my apologies. Didn't mean to hurt you with a joke :/
***(I DONT KNOW WHY I WROTE THE 'BUT' I GUESS BY MISTAKE OR SOMETHING)***

From: her
To: me
Sent: Tue, August 10, 2010 10:38:53 PM
Subject: RE: Hey

You catagorize me as a very bad bad bad girl ??

Date: Tue, 10 Aug 2010 22:35:19 -0700
From: _______
Subject: Hey

Hey Y,

I actually saw your ad randomly while posting my business ad. I'm a ____ instructor trying to get more clients.
I just had to say that I find you incredibly attractive and loved what you had to say in your ad, wasn't sure if I should email you, because craigslist said "Avoid, a very very bad girl :p" I would love to get together for a drink sometime and find out more about you.

Add me on facebook 'X' under ____network to see pictures

Take care,
X.

_____
She never replied.. did i ask for number to quick or something?

You went wussy on her. She was interested, and then at the slightest sign of her being upset, you immediately took back the joke you said. You went "Oh my gosh, she might not want to talk to me because I offended her! I better apologize fast!!" I don't know exactly what I would've said, but there's a lot of things you could've said better than that. You could've gone "Okay, not VERY very bad. Just one very. Very bad. Ok, maybe not thattt bad. But pretty bad. Or maybe not. But still kinda bad." Or something. You could've messed with her. But you apologized when you had nothing to apologize for.

Also, you did go for her number too early. You built almost no comfort with her. Did she ever even add you on facebook? You talked way too wussy style. If you did wanna try to number close right there, when she said "helll yaaah" when you asked if she was a fun person, you could've said "Prove it. Give me your number, I'll call you if I'm free, and maybe I'll consider letting you take me out and prove you're fun enough for me to hang around."

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tnx man. that makes sense. oh well. learning from mistakes.
and no she didnt add me on facebook