Is complimenting a girl's hair okay or is it a chump move?

complimenting a girl period is pretty much a chump move unless its actually impressive

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It was a cute hairstyle. I had nothing else. I guess I suck at openers.

Don't ever compliment for an opener. Ever.

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What should I have said?

Basically, don't try hitting on her, don't make a cheap compliment which will get shut down, it's obvious you're hitting on her.

Negs, an easy topic eg did you see that fight outside? an opener is just something to get conversation rolling.

[quote=Mystery]Yes, think TOPICS and not WORD for WORD lines or routines.

In fact there is NO such thing as a LINE. A line is just one sentence in a ROUTINE. Your ROUTINES should be loosely based outlines. NO WORD for WORD memorizations. Remember the basic outline of the routine. Design routines that dont HIT on the girl. She's EXPECTING that from a guy. Just be fun and funny and confident and cool and when she notices you arent hitting on her, she doesnt know whether you are just chatting for the fun of it or are hitting so she will test you by challenging this. Dont take the bait and start hitting on her. Give a NEG HIT. Heres a good one after you have initiated conversation through a non sexual topic and she has bitten into the game of chatting. "ooh, check this out .... watch this. Here, pull my finger. This is good." She will pull your finger and you go, "FFFFT! OH MAAANNN! You actually pulled my finger! haaa! No, no jus' kidding, here, really, pull on my finger. No honest this is good. Fffft! Oh MAN! THATS TWICE!!! I cant' believe you! My NIECE is 6 and doesnt fall for that anymore! man haaa!"

You were being playful and fun and you WERENT hitting on her. She will now feel a little dumb, but you were just being playful so she wont HATE you and call you and asshole. She will however, know you arent hitting on her (which pulls her BITCH BLOCKING shield down) and so will try to restore her image in your eyes. SHE is TRYING to impress YOU.[/quote]

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