alright. so me and this girl for the past couple months or so have been having this "no expectations" title where we just see eachother once a week or so just to make out with no strings attached. After a couple weeks we both started getting a little more interested. we found ourselves going on a date or two every week on top of the making out, evidently there was something growing there. She would be a typical female, getting hot then cold..i didn't really care too much. Last week we took the next step, she went down on me and I went down on her...it was an amazing night and the next day she was cold as hell. same with the next day. I went to her house last night and I just asked her what's up. She said that she's not 100% into me and its not fair that we continue fooling around if she knows its not going to go anywhere. She said she needs to see what else is out there and she doesn't want to feel "trapped" with a guy right now.

So any advice guys? I know a lot of you just want to get an F close and call it a day...but I'm getting to the point where I realize this girl is awesome and I want to keep her around. By what I said, does it look like its game over? still room to recover??

Thanks!

just keep it FWB, and let it lie

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Maybe your acting too needy and looking for more than just friends...

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Probably should try to preserve your FWB status with her. It sounds like she never did want a relationship with you and that's not likely to change now. Avoid developing oneitis, take her our out and use her as a pivot. I don't think your feelings for her are going to change her mind if this is a typical case.

Keep it to FWB and not going "out" once or twice a week. You might be able to eventually salvage it into something more but hey its better to have a HB with benefits then nothing at all as long as no drama is happening.