Ok random question but it is something I know some one has asked or at least wants to know aswell. Anyways I start college soon so I will have my a dorm and won't be with my parents so my logistics will be a lot better but what are some good ideas for a dorm and fun stuff to do when girls come to it? Itsd one of those 4 person dorms with a living room so not just your normal tiny and open-to-the-public- dorm. So far I have my laptop which has movies, home videos and music and internet of course. Speakers. And a hookah

What else is good to have hmm?

Thanks guys
mR.e

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dont even think just do it!

Maybe some cards or drinking games. Sometimes people like to chill and have a nice drink of beer or for girls vodka. You can also consider getting a mini fridge so you don't have to walk through the kitchen every time you have a girl back.

Also means people aren't going to steal your drink. Sometimes fun board games are good if people are having a good time. Have some cool posters up that are funny and get the girls asking some questions.

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The hookah is great!

Definitely have a mini-fridge. Bring some actual glasses (environmentally friendly and sophisticated) so the ladies don't have to use a red cup. Don't forget shot glasses.

Make your room look nice. Get a nice down comforter and some soft pillows. Get some cool posters (the Periodic Table of Sex Positions is not a cool poster) of bands or movies. Candles and incense - they probably aren't allowed, but get them anyway. Pick up a Glade plug-in too, so you can avoid that man smell that gets pretty bad in boy's dorms. Put a big mirror in your room - chicks love to look at themselves. Bring some conversation piece books that women can use to make conversation if necessary (Philosophy, Bukowski, autobiographies of rock stars, Lolita - you get the point). A rug would be nice too - dorm carpet sucks.

Make sure you have cards and couple of games. Catchphrase and Apples to Apples are fun and easy to play. A guitar is never a bad idea. Definitely bring a toolbox (girls never have tools and always need help fixing things).

You guys are awesome

Yes I deffinitly had the drink idea in mind and cards forgot to mention that but never considered a mini fridge that is perfect cause I love making little mix drinks I can keep those supplies in there
And yes I love my hookah haha

Any other ideas?
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dont even think just do it!

this may sound a little out of the ordinary and depends on your roommates. But if you guys work together I highly recommend a stripper pole in the living room.

I went once to a dorm party that had a stripper pole in the living room. Man, let me tell you, its a natural whore magnet. It's ridiculous. Girls who don't know anything about pole dancing will just hop on the thing and just give it a go.

your living room will definitely be the room where people want to party, guaranteed.


Once again, cooperate with the roommates, and let them know the investment is worth the profit.

Peace

PS: with great power, comes greater vaginassss

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Serj

I had an affinity for club lighting since high school, strobes, blacklights, etc. People love havin one of those show up. Just don't have strobe lights at eye level, doesn't end well lol.

If you drink, then find ways to set yourself apart. Every guy that plans on havin people over will try to will have some essentials. The minifridge, deck of cards, ping pong balls, and drinking posters will be in half the rooms. You, however, can take another route, a classier route that is cheap yet has an impact.

2 items: A shaker, and a box of cocktail straws. In case you don't know, a cocktail shaker is used to properly mix some drinks, and a decent run will run you $20. You can get those at any kitchen supply store right with plates and glassware. You can get the straws at most target-type stores for a couple bucks. If you actually have glasses as opposed to cliche solo cups you are golden. Throw together some kamikazes using the shaker and you'll automatically look like you know way more than everybody else about how to drink. Throw a couple straws in a vodka cranberry and she'll feel more sophisticated as she gets drunk. Fun, huh?

Ok so all the above answers are good and work, but a lot of the time when i had girls in my room, it was like in between classes, so we didnt really drink, you need stuff besides a mini fridge and alcohol. Just get some stuff that will reduce the chances of her being bored. The guy who said guitar was right, that worked for me haha it kept a lot of the girls busy for a good 10 minutes. Bring a wii if you have one, girls love the wii, and it is something that will take up a lot of time. You said you had a laptop for movies. May wanna invest in a tv. Also off topic, but heres a good piece of advice. Bring a coloring book to class and color..... no joke. My best friend does this and girls ask to start coloring with him. within like 5 minuets they are all over him. Do this if you can pull it off.

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FAIL PROOF PICK UP LINE: excuse my, im sorry to bother you but my father beats me, can i have your number.

you guys have been super helpful all of your advice has been good

dude a stripper pole! that would be amazing, iv been to 2 college parties that have had those and DAMN you are right they make things get wild, il deff have to see how my roomates are...i might have to teach them a little bit of game shit so we can work together


keep it comin though if anyone has other suggestions, these are good

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dont even think just do it!

Okay im on my 4th year of college, and your freshman year is THE year to live it up.

However, too many students get caught up in the partying. There were 4,000 freshman at my university, and I heard that 1/3 of them didnt come back for sophomore year. Why? no parents, no control, too much partying. All I cared about was smoking and drinking really. I made BEST friends with 2 of the guys on my floor, and ended up switching into one of their rooms 2nd semester. Needless to say, we drank a lot of light beer, buy a 30 pack on thursday night, drink it with a couple other people. Buy another friday, drink it. Etc.

Those two guys didnt come back. I got a 1.8 first semester, and a 2.2 the second semester (you must have a 2.0+ to come back). But I fixed it by focusing MUCh harder on my studies, been getting 3.0+ past 4 semesters. partying isnt everything.


THAT BEING SAID, have fun. Learn to use your dorm as a social tool. I wasnt in a fraternity because this public Uni costs $16k a year, and room/board expenses are another $5ka year or so. I wish I had joined one, even though you are buying your friends, you have access to the parties with ALL of the hot girls and high status people. Lots of rich stuck up people, but its a great social scene.
My 2 best friends and I made lots of new friends freshman year. I'd say we had about 4 girls that we always hung out with that lives on the floor above us. Then a bunch of various random people we would meet while smoking cigs at the bottom. Keep in mind each dorm building had over 1,000 students. We'd just make small talk, and see them at least every few days. Ask them what they are doing over the weekend, invite them to your dorm. Ours were 2 people per room, and we had suitemates so we shared a bathroom with 2 other dudes. Not too bad, but the dorms were tiny as ****.

Just make sure you try as hard as you can to get A's and B's, and party on the weekends when you're done with what you have to get done school-wise

p.s. bottles of alcohol is way less sketchy than cracking open tons of beers and having to throw them down the trash chute. Many sketchy times.

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I could offord to be in a frat, but I am on a sports team, the most successful sports team in my school and they are known as a big group of people that have fun. Mixed groups (swim team) and a lot of them hang out together anf are known in our school for good times
So I got that covered, this will keep my focus cause I'll lose. A lotta swcholarship money for drinkin if I happen to get caught so I'm gonna avoid that.

So I have the game for college and the social scene that's why I'm just workin on the logestics of my dorm, iv never lived away from home and due to my parents I didn't get as many full lays cause I didn't have my own place to take girls too. That's why I wanna make it set up very well, convient and not boring!

Thanks for the advice it is greatly appriciated, but finances are on my side for sports and keeping a 3.0 gpa after one year gives me more scholarship money so I'm set on not fuckin up. But I want to have fun, I finally get my own place that I control (well and share with a roommate ha)

Any advice on teachin a roomate game? I taught my wing who is my bestfriend but I'm afraid I'll get a roomat who might fuck it up for me, but at the same time idk if ib wanna go through the whole process of teaching him from scratch. And if I taught him I don't want it to back fire and him us it agaisnt me

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dont even think just do it!

I would honestly be very careful with teaching a friend about 'game'. Firstly because he might make fun of you and bring it out in the open, he could talk to people about it and destroy your rep. Secondly, if he's willing to learn he could actually become very good and might hurt your chances (not that he'd be better but he would become competition). So I'd be very careful, only if you really know him and if he's a close friend.

Don't underestimate the advantage you have because you know game, it's huge.

I want to ask a quick question here while were on the subject. I'm starting Uni in Holland in a few weeks and of course I'm going to socialize a lot. Now my plan was that when I'd be in a girl's room, or she in mine, that after we talked and had fun, I'd just spontaneously start making out with her. I'd say 'wow look at that wall' and then when she's looking stand behind her and transition to makeout. Now my question is, how often does this actually happen, is it normal, what are my chances of succes?

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yea i relize that exactly i had that same thought, he will just shut it down and call me out on it if i had girls over or he would out game me if i taught him too well... ha

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dont even think just do it!

Don't introduce it to your roommates as game. Don't pull up a video on youtube or show him these forums. That could lead to some tension as guys who are first introduced to this can easily default to stereotypes about it being manipulative or deceitful for women. Here's what you can do, though, just mention a couple things at a time as ideas. Say you and your roommates go to a party and you're all getting ready. You tell them that whenever you see a girl you wanna talk to you go to her as soon as possible, before you get too nervous to even look at her. The three second rule is great to bring out some basic ideas of pua because it covers something that every guy experiences: approach anxiety. From there I don't doubt that a roommate will share a similar feeling and then you can talk about some basic concepts that you follow. Most of all, lead by example. If you're roommate sees you having success, he will probably ask you how you are doing it.

Vuvuzela, that makeout ploy sounds like a bad idea. Ideally, of course, she will be coming to you and making it very clear. But don't pull a line like "hey look over there." It shouldn't be THAT spontaneous because by the time you two are alone in a room you should already have built up some physicality through kino. You make it sound like no escalation happens leading up to it. She should be thinking about kissing you on the way back to your place, not after talking there for an hour.

Final note, Octave is very right about the wii, and I was too lazy to go into it in my previous post. Nintendo made a great system for both sober and drunk occasions. Even just the basic sports game that comes with the system is always fun, and it provides just a bit of competition. Honestly, Rock Band was the best wingman I ever had. I was playing a fake guitar, flirting with the girl who was singing, while her linebacker friend was on the other guitar focused on doing well because I had teased her for playing poorly on the previous couple of songs. It's fantastic.

Z-Wrex I understand what you mean and I may have told my plan a bit poorly. Could you perhaps judge the routine on its own?

Let's say we just got in her room, or mine. Then I pull her towards me and a wall and I say 'Wow look at that!' , then I stand close to her for a little kino, I say 'keep looking'. Then I laugh and neg her. And when she turns around I grab her hand, move it upwards as if I wanted to see it closer, then I surprise her by putting it slowly against the wall. And I kiss her.

Isn't that a fullproof technique? Other can comment as well.

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