sorry for the super massive post... i just dont have anyone thats good with girls/ a pua so ive had to write the whole story. please could you bare through it and read it all a tell me what you think pls. thanks:

ok was having fun with this new girl at work. something happened and i was like "please you dont have a boyfriend". she got all nervous/ shy, looked away from me and said "yee.. i do.. hes somewhere..". turned out he was on holiday and she had bad feelings about him.

ok after getting know her a little she would say a few things like "why isnt my bf as nice as you?", "haha your funny" and getting physical with me, touching my chest, stomach, arms, playfully punching me and even trying to over power me that she obviously couldnt.

got her phone number and just general texting for about a day before i rang her coz she was complaining about her bf nearly dumping her (he basically asked her how she wud react if he would). i listened to her, agreed, said stuff like "well im sure he doesnt mean 2 he loves you" (reverse psychology), to which she wud be like "he doesnt love me", and stuff like "some guys are like that". i played a game (the cube) with her over the phone to cheer her up and it worked got her mind of her bf as well.

after saying "night" to her and getting off the phone she text me saying "thanks for cheering me up". i was gonna text her the next day but i thought it would look needy so i didnt. she ended up complaining that i didnt ring her the next day!... so anyways i ring her the day after pretending to be my personal assistant and got her to book an appointment with me so we could talk, she found it really funny and played along with it.

ok now heres where it goes shit... he canceled on me about 30mins before the time she booked so i didnt talk to her on the phone. i text her and she didnt response. she called in sick the next day, text her to see if she ok... she was like "ye im fine" but didnt want me to ask why. tried to cheer her up but she didnt respond... i rang her a few days later on a sunday night... she text me saying she out and busy. i replied "huh".

Hmm your game seems to be fine. Im not a fan of the revers psych about the bf. If you really wanted her and dont mind being a douche, you could have milked that situation right there, she was insecure about him and was looking for someone to comfort her.

What Im guessing happened is that the bf broke up with her and she realized that you wanted to be more then friends. You seemed more like her best friend and a guy thatll hold her hand through this break up then the guy she wants to hook up with.

Also at the end it sounds like you got clingy. I say give it some distance let her text you and get back in touch with you. Or just move on.

i dunno how to milk the situation lol... i dont think they broke up but i could be wrong. she really does "love" him or at least thats the word shes used. i just dont understand how it could be going good then... pretty much no response to texts and the call last night (sunday) she was jus like "im not home" instead of saying "sry im not home". i still wanna win her over...

any other thoughts guys? please i really like herrr ahhhh? guess alshind right should i distance myself for a bit? ill see at work tmr.

If relationship advice = game, then Dr. Phil should be a featured MPUA here. He's not.

Why go on and on about HER and another DUDE? Unless of course you're her gay hair stylist. Do you understand what I am saying? Take care of your own johnson. That guy doesn't need any help from you.

Couldn't have said it better myself Kasabi!
Be a PUA don't be the nice guy. If she isn't responding don't chase her, she's obviously living her life. Go live yours.

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Fox

exactly

Why would u talk to her about her bf, say hes a douche and thats all. u arent out to help her about it unless your her friend.
FAIL, wtf. good job putting yourself in the friendzone, seems you reverse psychologied yourself into believing that would work.

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