Hey All,

Quick bit of advice needed here. I had previously been well into The Game before I got into a LTR and I am back and hitting it hard. I have become stumpted with a HB9 though. The story is as follows:

I was in a club with friends and looked over to see HB9 looking over at me. She smiled so I smiled back and carried on talking with my friends. About 30 minutes later I noticed her start to leave so put my hand out and she held my hand and stopped. I started talking to her (while her friends waited) and after a couple of minutes said 'I should let you go with your friends. Give me your number and we will talk more'. She did, I called the number through as she was leaving. The call didn't go through so I messaged her 30 minutes later giving her my number. She messaged me about 5 times that night asking why I wasn't messaging back and if I was asleep

The next day I replied and had a long message conversation. She was out with friends so couldn't call and I wouldn't of anyway tbh - I don't really do that straight away. I said we should go out as I was heading back up North which she agreed to come and pick me up. She did say in the messages she wasn't feeling well as she had 3 hours sleep and drank for the first time in ages so I said we wouldn't be long. In her messages she said for me to add her on facebook which I didn't do until I got back from her picking me up

We hit it off straight away in the car which was cool. On the drive to the pub though she opened the window a bit and said she felt sick and didn't want to go to the pub. Apolgised and said we would go out when I get back from up North. I agreed

I messaged her that evening (uncertain if she was in bed) which she didn't reply to but did reply the next morning with a message that I mis-read. I replied then realised I made a mistake. About 5 hours later I replied again but stating I was confused and asked her stuff about why she chose to do what she does for a living.... No response (its been 3 days)

After 2 days she confirms me as a friend on facebook

What would your next step be? I am 50:50 whether to go home next week-end which I would like to get her on a proper day 2 but don't want to seem too pushy with her messaging her

35 views and no replies... cheers guys

I was on FB earlier and noticed HB9 come on a few times as idle (iphone chat) but left it. Decided to make a call. First one through to voicemail with no rings and second range a few times and voicemail

to be honest you sound way too needy. Even by the length of your post. Your deep thinking will get you nowhere. Call the girl, neg her, have fun, make it 3-4 mins max, ask her out. make sure you end the call, abruptly if need be.

u obviously like her, so chill out....meet up and if it goes well then your laughing

agreed to much texting to. text for C & F and thats pretty much it. Dont start quizzing her through the txt bout her life. Id say there was some attraction there but not enuff comfort(u talked to her briefly as she was leaving). arrange a meet up
why a long msg convo. wtf. get C&F get some sexual tension, my fav reverse frame her,

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Can you give some examples of C & F and how you would bring in sexual tension?

I know my Inner Game is failing at the minute and so have been listening to Eckhart Tolle quite a bit. Whenever my mind wanders I bring my head back by focusing on some object. Seems to work.

I have a thread on something else related to Inner Game. Take a look please in the Inner Game section (cant post links). Post title is 'Inner Game Thoughts)

I think I might call the HB tonight or tomorrow. Not sure if I can be bothered really though