Brief summary: I met this girl last summer through a close friend. We stayed up all night just talking in her bed and built a very strong, trusting connection. A year later, last week I saw her for the second time in my life while she was in town with her family. She'd been telling her friends about me for months/couldn't keep her hands off me/I kiss closed her easily (romantic in the rain) and we made-out a few times.

Her cellphone is broken, so we made plans via E-mail. THIS IS WHERE I DON'T KNOW HOW TO RESPOND! I think she just doesn't want to seem easy, but we made plans for her to take the bus out to see me. She asks me "What are we doing about sleeping arrangements, or are you driving me back the same night?" (Massive AFC if I drive her 45 minutes back home the same night OR I'm the sexless inn keeper). Her family is coming into town THE NEXT DAY, but she INSISTED she wanted to come early. HOW DO I RESPOND TO THAT QUESTION?!

Just say, somethink like, "you can have my bed and i will sleep on the sofa", do not dare offer to drive her back, only afc's do that. make up the sofa, and then when she is in your bed turn her on if you play it right you will both sleep in your bed anyway, you are just making up the sofa for show

Well I suggest acting like you're just gonna go sleep in the same bed, no funny stuff. She will be thinking how badly she wants you to and wishing you would make a move.

Then when you're both gonna go to sleep... start a funny conversation, or turn on a movie.

Pay attention to her body language, and make gradual moves forwards.

Yeah. She wants to do you, but doesn't want to look like a slut. ASD, as the community calls it. Offer her your bed and that you'll take the couch as the other guy said. Then do something like watch a film in your room and take it from there. You don't have to sleep on the couch just because you say you will.