I don't want to get into a very long story ...


I have a girl friend for 1 week long, not my style to have a girlfriend. I told her i am not prepared for a relation,etc, but she insist to date me.

So I accepted, i saw her, then i inviter her at my home next day, and we made sex, and the next time she came, she refused to have sex with me,she said next time, next time, bla bla bla and today she told me "no sex for 3 weeks"

i was like, wtf!?


3 weeks it's not that bad, but i don't want her to drop me, cheat me, or in this 3 weeks to familizare with a "sterile guy" near her...

Much more , i got nervouse, I insulted her,etc... she begun to reject my calls, then call me back after 2 hours, she also said she don't want to see me for1 week, but then said to meat tomroow, bla bla bla.

Also her brain, can now work to "unlove" me (if she loved me), and i don't want to have problems at the end of this 3 weeks...



Ahhh, and she is not the first girl to this "stop on sex on me" wtf?! girl fuck me,and drop me?!
it happened to me 11 times now. I scored 13 girls, and with only 2 i made sex more then once!, and from those 11 , 4 were virgins...

Shut up. You're an idiot.

Stop being a wussy little bitch and doing what SHE wants you to do!

"but she insist to date me. "

YOU'RE the man. Don't let her run things.

well, i am not acting like a wussy, because i was not the one who wanted to be with her, she asked a friend were i live, came to my apartment, etc... so I said ok ... let me get along with this girl.

She's also cute... but she had sex # then she put an hold on sex... i got very angry on that.... i insulted her , but seems she forgive me (forgive, maybe also forget what i did), she said she put an hold on sex for 3 weeks (so 1 more to go) , because she was thinking i want just sex from her and things like this.


this is her pic: http://img148.imageshack.us/img148/3466/stefy4b.jpg

you're being an absolute beta afc

girl says she wants to date you, you don't want to date, you date anyway.

she says no sex for 3 weeks, you get angry and insult her and now wait out 3 weeks.



um yeah, you're definitely a wussy

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Well regardless of how she looks, your attaching yourself to every women you fuck...when it's not your "Style" to have a gf? It seems your "Style" is to try and make something more out of every little encounter.

If you dont have a caveman approach with these women, "ME NEED SEXX, U GIVE ME SEX" women want it as much as you, but they dont want to feel used at the same time.

Your situation is total text book AFC, Stage 1. Step back from this whole situation, take a deep break and re-evaluate everything your doing and feel with these women.
You see the irony in that, right? You need to realize that it's your weakness that you get too attached to these women. And if you dont want to date and a girl can pressure you and break you down like that, that'll never help anything.

Sit back and be realistic about this. (As creepy as it is you keep an exact total), those women you were talking about before, your NOT going to make every women you meet a fuck buddy. Some women want NSA sex just like men, some want relationships and realize they made a mistake and move elsewhere. Having unrealistic hopes for every situation with a girl will keep giving you the same results you've been getting.

This is a typical example of a girl taking charge because she can control you like a puppet with sex.
Tell her that sex is a privilege for her and not for you.
Then you either leave her, or date her at the same time as you are dating other girls, let her know you date other girls.
Or option three, cut your dick off and become her bitch

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No,i've played hard to get with her...

Yeah i did a "bad move". But maybe it's like on chess, sometimes a bad move can open a better move. Sometimes to girls you need to give them emotions,etc... there are badguy and gang boys who hit their girls, and their girls still love them. Now i don't want to say I did something SUPER... i just got MAD... the question is what to do next, coz i did...

She called me, and i told her "Lissen up, you made me angry. Hang me up, kill me, this is me, that is what i did... you made me angry. and i could not control me, so do whatever you wish "

No,i've played hard to get with her...

Yeah i did a "bad move". But maybe it's like on chess, sometimes a bad move can open a better move. Sometimes to girls you need to give them emotions,etc... there are badguy and gang boys who hit their girls, and their girls still love them. Now i don't want to say I did something SUPER... i just got MAD... the question is what to do next, coz i just did it, you know what i mean?...

By the way,

She called me, and i told her "Lissen up, you made me angry. Hang me up, kill me, this is me, that is what i did... you made me angry. and i could not control me, so do whatever you wish "


Nope. I did not had a girl friend,because i had some high blood pressure problems for almost 1 year, so i preffered to have 2 fuck bodies. They are 30and 35, while I am am 24.
Now that I ok, i said "let me have a girl friend" because i like to travel , and all those stuff. I can't go alone on to sea-side or to the mountains... you know?


Yeah, i am going to do this.
Just date with another girls while I am with her, then if she willl put another hold on sex, I will just leave her... and maybe i will also tell her about my decision to be with the other girl.

Best response should have been

Her- "No sex for 3 weeks"

You - "Let's make it four"

End of.

Scamp

are u bad at sex?

clearly not, or she wouldn't be pulling moves like this
wow you're a pussy.


oh god, based on your posts i thought you were like 16..../facepalm

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BAFC. I'm not usually the type of guy to slate peoples posts, and i'm going to say this in the nicest way possible.. WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING!!

She basically made you get with her, then fucked you, then is playing you for 3 weeks.. if you ever even want to become an AFC (because you arent even there yet!) you need to man up, ditch her, and do some fucking reading..

sorry but had to be said
peace x

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Yo, the names actually K (: peace x

Guys,
can we talk about the situation created ,and not that I am way behind AFC, AFC , a complete looser with girls, or anything like that ? Because if i had just fuck and leave her and said it here, you would tell me "ohhh you are good",etc..
I am not disperated about this girl, i just want to play my cards very well with her.
let's talk about the situation ,and not about me.
and by the way I did not got this girl, or any other girls because i am very good looking, or because i am famous or very rich.
But know wtf, if a girl will come to you and say "let's say" you would say Sorry, i don't want to be an AFC and i won't date you because you ask it, not me!?"

Also my English is not really good...

The situation you have created and let yourself into is your doing... there is no point even trying to play cards with her because she is in complete control. the only way you can get her to want you is to split with her and start picking up other women..

dont call, text or email her.. just see what happens because this women seems like what my friends call a "physco bitch"..

your game was obviously bad for you to end in the situation and i know are saying lets talk about the situation so im going to say one thing..

In this situation as someone who wants to play a girl who has played you hardcore and is walking all over you, the only thing you can do is ditch her and get some hb's under your belt to make her jealous. SIMPLE

peace x

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Yo, the names actually K (: peace x