After obviously getting a number and going on a date. Then comes my question the text banter as a people chat via text message more I have found. perhaps it is because it's easier I don't know..... whatever......

The thing is should you text back straightaway? Should you text them even if they don't text you? Should you tease them in a friendly way? How should you act apart from setting up the next date. What is the general rule of thumb in text when your in the early stages? (I ask this for the view of not only to get into her knickers but also to potentially make it into a long-term relationship)

If you meet her in the day, you should call that evening. If you meet her in the night, you should call the next day at lunch.

Then text as a way of keeping the spark alive when all that's needed is a little funny text, like the day after that. Call/txt till the day 2.