hey, i heard Frank Kermit talking about satisfying emotional needs in women, but i didn't understand - is it a DHV? is it a method to keep women around you? what is the adventage of doing this?

Well, i take them as the requiremnts you need to pass, in order to get in bed with her.
In order to have her see you as a sexual mate you have to satisfy all (or almost all) her "emotional needs". Putting it simple, its just like another "method", another way of looking at things (PU), but Frank has some great material, definettly worth checking out!

A woman's primary emotional need is security. All other needs (trust, communication, affection, commitment) are spin-offs of the most basic female desire - to feel safe from abandonment.

This is particularly important when a woman is sleeping with a man as, subconciously and biologically, she wants to feel that the man will stick around in the event that she gets pregnant.

Then why do women detest needy/clingy guys so much? They are exactly the kinds that would never leave a woman. Instead women go for the guy with the most options, meaning he's much more likely to choose someone else.

Because emotional needs are only one portion of the pie. Clingy and needy guys are probably failing to satisfy her intellectual, sexual, and shared interest needs.

Because needy/clingy guys are NOT sexually attractive! (:

I agree with Zephyrine's statement about woman valuing security (knowing that the man won't leave them) in a relationship, and I see how that is true, but how do we show that we are not needy without "showing that we are willing to leave them" without damaging the woman's feeling of security?

One of the basic technique a guy uses to show a girl that they are not needy is by "showing that they are willing to leave them" well atleast that is what I thought is the best way to go at "eliminating the needy persona", so now I am starting to question this...

hopefully what i said made some sense.

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Bull. No matter what, a needy/clingy guy will send a girl running. This is why girls are friends with guys they have "everything in common with" and don't go for nerds particularly often. The rest seems to take a back seat to being completely willing to lose the girl.

Because neediness displays desperation. Desperation displays lack of choice. Lack of choice displays un-attractiveness. This tells a chick her offspring will also be unattractive and therefore not likely be able to find mates themself.



Zeph... Personally, what kind of things in a man, and what he does, helps satisfy your emotional need of security?

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Munroe: "I kinoed the hell out of that goat"
Jav: "bashing chodes 24/7 ftw"
Slywalker: "Neg the bagel"
Slywalker: "I had a 1yr old GF when I was 19"
SS_Trunks:I asked her for an extra pen, confidently....

Matador:"You need to show her that you want her, not need her"
there is a big diffrence.

and by the way, i think that sometimes you need to run after your girl,as opposed to what is acceptable in the world of game. you need to show her that she is important to you, but that is just my opinion..