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PostPosted: Mon Jul 26, 2010 8:28 pm 
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The last few weeks Ive been doing the whole C&F approach with absolutely every girl I interact with and met this stunning girl last week. I was out with some friends on Friday and made sure she knew I would be in the city centre and let her pester me to meet up, around 1:30am I told her I was in a club in our city centre.

She was at a bar a good mile away and actually came to the club I was in with her friends(and paid in!) like 30 minutes before the club closed to come and meet up with me.

Was all going great, myself and my - well I guess I should call her my wing girl - went back to one of their group's friends houses were we partied a little and I hooked up with the girl.

I havent called or texted or anything since as Im still in auto pilot with the whole "give her the gift of missing you thing". I'll probably text her tonight or tomorrow and bust her balls a little.

Thing is, I can remember her noticing a tattoo I have with a girls name on it and she thought it was my gf/wife or something so I actually explained it was my daughter's name which led to the conversation of me explaining I have 2 kids from a previous LTR and they live in another country with their mum. She mentioned a couple of times that she couldnt believe I had kids and that it changed things - although she did continue making out with me afterwards.

Should I address this at all and actively try to play it down - albiet without being obvious - or should I just continue doing what I did previously to build the attraction(call her by the nicknames Ive given her and continue being C&F) and not bring it up again until she does?

This girl is hot and she's very much the kinda girl Id look at with my jaw dropped before I learned this stuff - I'd really like to see how far this can go. She is really cool, beautiful and nice but I'm genuinely not sure whether or not the kids thing is a dealbreaker for her.

If it is, she'll get the "I think we should just be good friends - with sexual tension" text and I'll move on but Im genuinely curious if anyones experienced similar.

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PostPosted: Mon Jul 26, 2010 8:42 pm 
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I've not experienced anything similar myself as I don't have kids but I think I might have some comments for you. You seem pretty confident and from your writing I take it quite well spoken, so her saying "this changes things" might not mean something bad, it might simply mean that she is not looking for a relationship with you now (is that what you are looking for?).
For now just role with it, if it comes up again tone the conversation down a bit, tell her a few things about yourself, about your aspirations and such. Swing the conversation to her aspirations and plans (not pushing it towards kids at all!), simply using her confrontation as a path to talk to her about more serious things. I always considered this a good proof of value (DHV) as you show another side to yourself.

One last thing about the text you mentioned at the end. I've started out sending text like that as well but have come to feel that it is very much getting out of the pick-up on your own terms. Which is cheating really :), make her push you away don't just end it because it's easier.

Hope that helps,
Len

PS: Welcome to the community, just joined today myself and also just read your introduction, hope you'll find what you are looking for!


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