Yes this is a known technique, but it wont magically cause your anxiety to disappear on dates. Most of these frame reversal 'lines' would be said in a teasing manner...eg. 'we can go back to my place for another drink, as long as you promise not to take advantage of me!'. Will get her to laugh but also indirectly imply that she is pursuing you and not vice versa.

Yes if you do this really well there may be a little so called pressure taken off you while on that date, but it will not remove that anxiety of not wanting to screw it up. You need to face that head on my friend, it really is the only way. Practical experience is key. You need to see what it feels like to be on a date, show her a good time, and create that attraction.

The great thing is that you dont have anything to lose, you can only benefit from the lessons learned along the way and as a result you will improve.

Dude have you ever had sex before?


Do you know how to have sex?


Do you know how to turn girls on?


Do you know how to tease them?



If yes, you do that shit playfully through online talking or whatever, through doing gay little things like this *nibbles your ear* And let them play along, as you build it up. Actually surprise myself sometimes at the reactions I get. Sometimes you come up with shit you can incorperate into real life.



then it builds off that. If you can't talk a good sex game, it's probably because you don't have a good sex game. If that is the case, I'd really think about working on that if I was you.

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I agree actually. Good point.

You know. I was just hoping that she will sexually escalate instead of me LOL. But I guess that's going to be an impossible feat eh?

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This does happen occasionally, but wont happen with most women you meet. YOU need to escalate, YOU need to be the man. She is expecting this so give it to her. Do you have any idea how on-turning it is for a women when a man is assertive, is able to escalate sexually and take complete control? They...fucking...love it! Yes, this actually turns them on, big time.

Stop looking for ways to get around your anxiety, its time to face it head on and put yourself out there!

This does happen occasionally?! HOW? Tell me now ! lol

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"If something is important enough to you, you won't give up"

There is no HOW. I told you it doesnt work this way.

The rare exception is if the girl is a wild, forward and sexually liberated girl with plenty sexual experience and does not give a dam about her social reputation. You cannot count on this though!

The other case is when she is your girl friend, girl friends initiate sex all the time as you may know. But she aint your girl friend (just yet!)

"The other case is when she is your girl friend, girl friends initiate sex all the time as you may know"

No I actually don't LOL

Geeze, are you serious?

I was once reading through this NLP stuff about subconciously turning a girl on. And when the girl gets turned on, she will try to sexually escalate. However, there wasn't much details on how this could be done though using NLP, and I don't even know how to use NLP so this kind of bad. I know the other way is to get her drunked and turning her on, but I rather not prefer this method, though maybe possibly a method a long this line can be used if known about.

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"There is always a solution to even the hardest problem in life."

"If something is important enough to you, you won't give up"

Of course, when you're in a comfortable relationship and generally have a healthy sex life, you will be woken up in the morning with her initiating it on a regular basis (and other times too, this is just a typical one.). The perks of having a girl friend!



Yes there are plenty ways to psychologically turn a girl on, mostly by using mental imagery. ie. get her to start imagining you two having sex. And then of course escalating physically (gradually) starting with light touching etc. gets her comfortable and prepared for when you do go in for the kill.

But mate youre still trying to find an easy way out it seems, getting a girl turned on is not enough to MAKE her initiate sex with you dude, no matter how turned on a girl is most will make this clear, but they still require YOU to do the actual physical escalation (and they will be ready and waiting for it!).

You are trying to learn these techniques for the wrong reason. ie. to get her to escalate purely because you are too scared to do this. Dont you see that this is not the solution. You should be learning these techniques (getting her turned on) so that WHEN YOU ESCALATE AND INITIATE SEX she is ready for it and wanting it. Forget about relying on a women initiating sex, you need to get over your anxiety and start escalating yourself! And you can do this by putting yourself outside your comfort zone and forcing yourself out on dates in order to get practice and experience. This is the last time Im saying this!

Thanks bro. You have been much help. ^ ^

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"There is always a solution to even the hardest problem in life."

"If something is important enough to you, you won't give up"

You crazy person. You predicted what came true.

I recently asked her out and she said she was going out with her girlfriend.

I ma still prove you wrong though if it takes me years.

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"If something is important enough to you, you won't give up"

Why arent you seeing other girls? You need to man up and start approaching my friend.

Because I have no interest for any other girls. I've rejected countless girls and chose to focus on school, but until I met this "her" everything's changed for me. Something tells me she is the "one" even though she is a legit lesbian though.

I'm on my path to search her true feelings for me.

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"There is always a solution to even the hardest problem in life."

"If something is important enough to you, you won't give up"