Hey all, quick info, I'm a 23 year old guy (who happens to be gay) and wanted to basically sum this down into 2 questions...

1) Do you know of any famous gay PUA's in the community that I could look into
and
2) Do you think many of the techniques to pick up straight women could also be used to pick up gay men?

Thanks...

from what I know about gay guys, yes this shit should still work.

but then again, an easy way to get gay guys is being a straight guy who comes off a little gay....so pretend to be straight lol

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I have to say it does not work!

Gay man are man too, so they their attraction is based on looks almost. If a gay man does not find you physicaly attractive there is little to nothing you can do, if he does..well this may help

hmm I'm not exactly sure about that, there are many unattractive gay guys with very attractive ones and I know for the great majority it had nothing to do with extraneous circumstances, like one person being wealthy.

You'd be surprised at how close females and males are in this thing.

Alot of PU stuff are just general applied psychology principles.

Sry m8, i cant agree with that. Although both men and women are humans, so their emotions are big part of the deal, men are way too hardwired to go for looks. After all we need healthy females with reprodutive value, right?
Ok PUA is almost all psychology, but you should not forget animal instincts.

I talk for myself, i would never settle for a woman i didnt find at least "good looking", but i have to admit i am a picky guy.

have a few gay friends--and what i notice about them is they are all very big into sport- if thats any help to you---they are also good at giving advice and are very private in that they can keep confidances and dont blab--- if i were you id almost go straight out direct approach with them--they will respect you for it and even if you get rejected they are less likely to cut u or try and humiliate you the same way as some females do

BTW what are you looking for out of this is it a relationship or more sexual encounters

another thing my friends all have in common is that they don't like the idea that just because they are gay their straight friends feel the need to try and set them up with every gay guy they know---they are particular,so getting straight friends to set u up probably isnt an option

Oh to be a gay man. Not to make a rash generalization, but gay men have it easy! Without the woman around to be prudish and resist sex, one-night stands, friends-with-benefits, and general sexual mayhem happens much more easily.

Now relationships are the same sticky bullshit for all of us, gay or straight.

So you're saying gay guys are hardwired to go for looks; will they get healthy offspring by shooting semen up another guy's ass?

To answer the OP, are you in or out? Do you have lots of gay friends or not? Just hang out with a bunch of gay guys. You'll figure it out.

In fact, most of you newbies should hang out with a bunch of gay guys . . . you'll learn a few things . . .

Statistically speaking, women choose their partners on looks.. this comes from the matching hypothesis theory.

The application of evolutionary theory in PU is largely pseudo-science with some assumptions thrown in.

Being funny, is helpful, becuase it breaks down barriers and links you to positive emotions.

Mirroring is a world wide concept.

Romeo and Juliet effect. MM is pretty much the applied version of this.

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All the female specefic attraction switches, are actually working on principles which are not sex/gender based. It's just alot PUA's end up horribly mis-interpretting and bastardising the actual theory behind the techniques.

I think what he's saying is that at the end of the day they're still men and most men go for looks.
I'm out, and don't have much trouble picking up the average looking guys, I was just wondering how I could pick up 10's when they usually have other 10's chasing them.

And what I'm saying is that based on his reasoning(Pseudo-Darwinism crap) , men should also then be hardwired to fuck vagina. You're not . . . and plenty of other men are not.
Learn the game and it's definitely possible . . . but I'd say that this could be challenging especially if you're hanging around promiscuous guys. If it's ONLY about sex, who would you rather fuck, a 10 or a 7? They probably feel the same.

So your task is to take your social engagements above and beyond sex. Sell fun, fantasy, adventure. This will all return to a higher state of sexual arousal when the time is right but if you begin with ONLY sex, their eyes will turn to whoever is in the room that they would visually most like to fuck.

Matching hypothesis theory is that a Theory, not a Law. You have your right to believe in it or not. To me its 100% Bullcrap! One look at the animal kingdom and its all ..puff!


You say all the switches are not gender based? Oh..cmon, you seem like a smart guy, how could things like leadership be not gender based? I srsly doubt men would be more attracted to leading females.

Kasabi, if you think other ppl opinions are crap, why even comment? (:

Anyway this is going i dont wanna go too offtopic.

Anyway to the OP, although i think its based on looks, i think game can help you. If the guy has some type of attraction to you, game should be very helpful! If he doesnt..well i honestly have my doubts.
I had gay man hitting on me, on the past. I had no confidence, was a total zeta male, and i know for sure they were doing that because of my androgynous good looks. I had females aproach me, with the exact same looks, but at that time i had confidence, it was a fake confidence, but still had an huge impact.

Anyway, good luck!