just so everyone knows im a girl lol.

anyways I met this guy at work and we became facebook friends. well we were both let go from our jobs because they had too many people working so he messaged me on facebook to tell me he got fired too. he also said that we should hang out sometime. Is he asking me out or is it just as friends? honestly, hes an awesome guy but im just not attracted to him so i dont like him as anything more than a friend.

so whats going on? does this sound like a date?

its a mix

guys say that when looking for a date, lay, or friendly chat

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interpret it any way you want.

just make sure he knows that you're not interested - spare him the false hopes.

How long have you worked together with him before you were let go? Maybe he wants to hang out and talk and be friends. If he's interested in you he probably would have asked you out alot earlier then this. Of course, he may have been shy and was waiting for a good time. Hell, if you look hard enough he may have even started a thread about it on here lol.

But there's nothing wrong with going out and being friends with him if thats what you choose. If he tries to escalate just let him know. The best thing you can do for a guy (Now im assuming alot here, maybe he's an AFC) is to let him know you're not interested if he tries to progress things.

Otherwise just go out and have a good time Dont overcomplicate it just yet and have fun!

Our specialty is seducing women, I don't know how much good advice you're gonna get on seducing men.

ok guys update. so i think he thinks this is more than just friends. anyways he wants to go out to lunch this weekend but i really dont wanna go because im scared he will try to escalate or whatever. i dont wanna be a bitch but should i just saying i am going away this weekend and not reschedule?

any advice would be greatly appreciated

Just tell him you don't like him that way. Avoiding him or making excuses might make it worse, he might think you're playing hard to get and he might try harder.
Why not just nip it in the bud, and be upfront about the situation.

good thing this guy isnt a pua.

its entirely up to you, you could either go to lunch with him then whilst at lunch say to him that you like hanging out with him only as a friend though, OR give him the brush off by saying you cant, you could say that you think he has fellings for you and that you dont want to lead him on

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If hes clingy just tell him what you told us "sorry, i only like you as a friend, im not attracted to you"

If hes clingy and needy (AFC) the longer you leave it the more he'll ignore your signals telling him to fuck off, sadly to say i know this form experience (2 years ago)