I was wondering which you all did when you were first getting into being a pua. I spent basically my entire year freshman year doing baby steps and newbie missions and stuff but it never really helped me at all (never went to any parties, never had any girls, etc). Finally, I told myself that I just need to man up and go for it. In the second semester of my sophmore year I joined a fraternity. Sure I was nervous the first few times i was around the party scene and even more nervous when I was around hot chicks, but by the end of the semester, I became comfortable with it.

So I was just curious how you all got into the game. Did you slowly work your way into it, or did you just dive right in? I personally found the second way to work better for me, because it gave me less chances to talk myself out of doing things.

My motto has always been "GO BIG, or GO HOME!" Either do it all the way or not at all you don't get anywhere trying to do babysteps because it's a process.

I know some people just do the steps they are comfortable with but if a Guru has a ten step process and they just do steps 1,2,4,and 10 then it'll never work as it was intended to.