Alright so last weekend I got my first lay ever, but Im sortve freaking out right now and Im not sure if its warranted or not. I had sex while I was really hammered, and I didnt use a condom because neither of us had one on us. Now while I was fucking her I had a major case of whiskey dick so I couldnt really feel anything. She couldnt get me off at all. I only fucked her for maybe 5-10 mins? Then she tried to get me off with head but that didnt work. So I had to finish myself, and even that took a couple of mins because I was so drunk..

Anyways, Im basically wondering what are the chances I could've gotten her pregnant for fucking her without a dome??? My thinking is that since I didnt even come close to getting off while I was inside her means probably no fluids went in???? But then again, I have no clue what Im talking about and I was drunk so Im kind of worried...

If anyone with some experience could give me some insight id greatly appreciate it.

heres three things and they are harsh

1) are you out of your mind... carrying a love glove is essential

2) pre-ejuaculatory fluid contains sperm so you can get her pregnant without coming

3) and finally it just takes 1 time theres a theory its 1 out of 100 times to you get a girl pregnant but any time could be that 1

and a final thought ARE YOU OUT OF YOUR MIND .. pregnancy is not the only worry what about catching something.. you dont know how many guys shes done bareback so get yourself checked

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thanks for coming down hard on me...I just messaged her on facebook. The morning after pill is still good up to 5 days which would be today. Hopefully she gets back to me fast because Id rather not have this not on my mind.

No excuses though, from now on im planning ahead.

Congrats on the lay and we've all done stupid things like this at least once, but please don't make it a habit. Seriously though, please get an STD test in a month or so (or sooner if anything is wonky), and hopefully she's not knocked up either.

Good luck.

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sadly i know this from experience my first 1 time without using one she got pregnant!

heres a tip for you as well for all medical buffs and its not a known fact.. if a girl is epileptic and says shes on the pill guess what it doesnt work..
epileptic medication counteracts the pill making it useless

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Now Im really starting to freak out...I just pray to god that nothing happened

If shes on the shot, I'd say your relativly safe. I've done it in the past. Wouldnt make a habit of it though. I wouldnt fuck a girl unless im sure she's taking contraception and I'm packing rubber!

A mate of mine and his girlfriend of 7 years were allergic to latex so they couldnt use condoms. 7 years of bareback on the depo provera shot / pill and no baby.

Conversley, a female friend of mine had a boyfriend of 3 years. He would fuck her bareback and pull out before he came... She was never on any contraception, sometimes he kinda "forgot" to pull out too... Never got her pregnant mind. Its a lottery.

I think the statistics say that you got a 3% chance of knocking her up if shes on Depo Provera. Which is (statisticly) "safer" than a condom. Personally I would get yourself checked for Chlamydia etc. Worry about that first... She's done you bareback... think, who else has she done?

Dear OP,

Stop being such a girly girl. Fucking w/o a condom is the way to go. Just pull out and you'll be fine....well sort of, just donkey kick her tummy after you blow your load all inside them guts....











J/k

Just got a message back from her on the book...Nothing to worry about!!! She was on the pill...Thank you God...I will never be that fucking stupid ever again.

Dear overcome,

I hope you are being sarcastic if not im guessing you failed out of school before you ever took sex ed. Like every1s saying, you could catch something and you could get her pregnant. If you catch something now, and later down the road find the girl of your dreams you can't have sex with her without giving it to her. think ahead buddy.

Hahaha this one had me laughing.

If she got pregnant, she could always abort the baby?

abortion isnt fun either when the girl i knocked up had 1 they showed me a film of a girl having a medical removal not just the simple pill, it made a saw film look tame

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ive laid heaps of girls without a dom never had a problem, im circumsized aswell = a BIT less risk of std etc

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Well, first of all, congrats on losing your virginity, albeit under some poor circumstances. I would say you have nothing to worry about, especially if you didn't even come close to cumming, which is where most of the precum appears anyway. I think some of the people on this thread are overblowing the risks of STDs and having sex without a condom in general. Honestly, if I had to choose between staying a virgin or going in bareback, I'd give it up got God and fuck the shit out of her and hope I pull out in time. It's better to live in the moment then have to look back and regret what could have been.