"I'm in love with you, but i wish i wasn't".

like seriously. WTF does she mean by THAT.

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Don't know the background of the story, but this seems to mean:

1) she really loves you, and it's killing her because of her hormones or you're not in love with her.

2) she's playing with you

If she would send this very randomly, i wouldn't know what to answer. caution is adviced

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As far as I know, she's giving a big IOI (Indicator of Interest). I would recommend that you tease her back on it and take this as a chance to ask her out and escalate physically with her, if you're interested in her, haha.

I would respond with something like: "Ohhh, I bet you must have been thinking really hard about me, so to relieve you of this 'stress', I can show you a way out. But first you have to buy me [insert name of food or whatever is appropriate for your situation].

and go with the flow from there but the idea is to keep her buying temperature up and try to get her to meet up with you ASAP.

Good luck, bro!

this is one of those questions you won't get good help on because we don't know the context of the relationship.

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ok, context.

we're basically best Friends that sleep togetehr, have done for a couple of years, i've tried to move the relationship forward to a more... permanent relationship a couple of times, met with resistance of "i'm not ready for a rel/ship". she knows i'm open to the idea of settling down.

anyway, went out for a coffee with her last night (as we do most weeks). she was weird and distant. i called her on it. i got that response...

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Maybe she's just scared that a relationship would ruin the friendship you guys have. Does she have a bad track record with relationships?

Distance yourself and start gaming other women until she starts realizing that she wants you more than just a fuck buddy.

Here the ultimate test, how does she react when you hook up with other women?

still am gaming other women, and she gets jealous if me + other women comes up in convo.

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Perfect, well do that more and more! If she is really into you she will want to be exclusive. Jealousy in this game is an extremely powerful tool. It sounds childish, but it works a treat.

or the reason she's saying that is BECAUSE of the other women.

like she loves you but thinks you don't want to be exclusive.

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