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freshlane
PostPosted: Thu Jul 22, 2010 2:59 am 
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So here it goes. I started coming on to a girl at work and we hit it off. Started msging at work n meeting up. Then here is where I believe I messed up. I started the routine of saying goodmorning and goodnight daily. Played 100?s, etc. I started textig her more then she did me, said hi at her desk a few -times. Overall just came off wanting and needy. I havnt had steady conversation with her in two" days, I know time to patch with this HB7/8 is run ning out or has already. PUAs I need help.
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 22, 2010 5:22 pm 
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Any and all support is appreciated. Even the "hey dude you Fd up"
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freeze her out, or just limit your txt msg's with her. act busy for once in your life.
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I usually recommend a 2:1 text ratio, but in your case, keep it at 3:1. Go out, have friends. Don't initiate. And be fine with the fact that you may never recover.
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you could try braking rapport for a few days altogether

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I usually recommend a 2:1 text ratio, but in your case, keep it at 3:1. Go out, have friends. Don't initiate. And be fine with the fact that you may never recover.
2:1 ratio at all times? Man you must be losing out on a lot of ladies like this. Not all women will follow up with a 2nd msg every time you dont reply. Most women have way too much pride for this. Keep in mind most also have 'game' and realize that they would be coming across as needy if they formed a pattern like this with you.

Also, a consistent 2:1 ratio will give a lot of women the impression that you're just messing them a round.
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agree to Vision, I read in a book about making friends to keep it at 60/40.

You want them to be talking more than you but not so much that its noticeable to them. Like you said, they are keeping score as well.
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I usually recommend a 2:1 text ratio, but in your case, keep it at 3:1. Go out, have friends. Don't initiate. And be fine with the fact that you may never recover.
2:1 ratio at all times? Man you must be losing out on a lot of ladies like this. Not all women will follow up with a 2nd msg every time you dont reply. Most women have way too much pride for this. Keep in mind most also have 'game' and realize that they would be coming across as needy if they formed a pattern like this with you.

Also, a consistent 2:1 ratio will give a lot of women the impression that you're just messing them a round.

Zephyrine is a feem.

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I usually recommend a 2:1 text ratio, but in your case, keep it at 3:1. Go out, have friends. Don't initiate. And be fine with the fact that you may never recover.
2:1 ratio at all times? Man you must be losing out on a lot of ladies like this. Not all women will follow up with a 2nd msg every time you dont reply. Most women have way too much pride for this. Keep in mind most also have 'game' and realize that they would be coming across as needy if they formed a pattern like this with you.

Also, a consistent 2:1 ratio will give a lot of women the impression that you're just messing them a round.

Zephyrine is a feem.
Well then switch all gender related terms in my post to the opposite sex. It still applies.
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