| DHVs are good, when they are done subtlety and naturally. Just outright telling people that you are great, is actually going to be perceived as pathetic because it is driven by insecurity rather than confidence.
When we talk about value, we are not just talking about money or fame, we are also talking about primal perceptions of value. Like strength, confidence, leadership, fearlessness; things that would have helped you survive and replicate 1,000 years ago.
DHVs are usually actions rather than words. Like leading a group or a conversation, or doing something ballsy and fearless, taking initiative, pretty much just being in control of yourself and your surroundings confidently. Some DHVs are verbal, but have less to do with the content of speaking then the act itself. Like taking control of a conversation to tell a personal story, the impressive part isn't the story, the impressive part is that you can make an entire group listen and enjoy it.
You can display value in how you stand, in how you stare at a woman, in how you touch and lead a woman, in how you talk and interact with a woman, in how you interact in a group, in how you walk through a crowd, in how you dress, in who your friends are, in how people respond to your, in how you react in situations. Value is displayed subtly in almost everything we do.
So basically, what I mean to say, is that you shouldn't tell people how awesome you are, you should just be you and let them see it for themselves.
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