Hey guys,

I've entered game since a friend introduced me to "The Game" by Neil Strauss in March of this year. After reading the book, I realized these are exactly the answers I've been seeking all my life. By being not good with women, I was lacking confidence and felt incomplete. Since reading Neil's book, I've had a renewed purpose every day now, which is to get this part of my life handled. And I'm glad to say things have been going pretty well, and I am a much happier and more confident person after entering the game for 4 months.

Neil Strauss's book, though extremely entertaining to read, still lacks details in terms of content. In order to improve my game, I also read the Mystery Method, the Bang, Double Your Dating, and receive newsletters from several gurus(Vin DiCarlo, David D,...). I've also learned alot from Gambler's online videos, he is a good one. Also RSD's Tyler, I like the way they explain social situations and good vibes, which work very well. I like them all because they are all my teachers, and I appreciate each part of their game.

As far as how far I'm into the game, well, I went from a shy, kinda geeky 29 years old, Chinese guy, who was uncomfortable and scared of girls(especially white girls), to being able to #-close, or k-closes 8-9s with good success. Even if she is a 10, I am not scared anymore. Just a few days ago, I told this HB10 blonde that " I know you are a blonde and people always let you have it your way, but....I just wanna find out.....what else you've got going for you?"(Thanks to Gambler & c&f from David D.) You guys should see her face, it was hilarious! And her answer wasn't very good either!

I still haven't f-close yet, there were chances but I just haven't had the balls to let it go. I also blew some chances along the way by not escalating right. So after learning to overcome approach anxiety, I am going to tackle escalation anxiety next. However, just being able to approach groups of women in social situations whether it's a bar, restaurant, cafe, or grocery store, and to have great conversations and fun with them to create attraction, the experience has been mind-opening so far. And the confidence and comfort level has not only helped me with meeting women, but it has improved almost every aspects of my life.

Btw, I'm in Torrance area in SCal. If there is someone wants to wing let me know, I am having so much fun in S. Bay area that I don't even wanna go back home in Seattle!

Nice to be in the community, and looking forward to learning from everyone!

Sam,

Hey, I like your English.

I'm Asian living in the U.K and been through stages similar to those you mentioned in your thread.

Yeah..escalating anxiety really bugs me too and much more energy is required than approaching girls.

We gotta admit that there is still some prejudice that Asian guys are geeky with no balls . I guess that's one of the reasons why Asian pua wannabes are struggling with approaching to HB10s. including me.

I'm trying to believe that the prejudice is only giving me I'm counter-intuitive who break it. I believe women respond to something different. Not many HB10s expect Asian guy sarging them at 7am.

Keep it up, man.

Hey welcome to the forum. I'm new as well. Just wanted to say there's no prejudice against asian guys here in Vancouver, Canada! Come visit one day, the women here are gorgeous.

_________________
DipT
Pick-Up Technician

Thanks for the inputs guys! I am really passionate about how much the game has set my life in the right path after too many years of frustration and confusion.

So far , I personally don't think there is any prejudice against Asian men at all in the U.S. Maybe England is different? I did approached a group of three British chicks in Vegas last week, and yes, they did seem like bithces. However,other European chicks (Russian, Swedish, Lithuania) are very friendly and easy pick ups, they are fun and gorgeous women as well!

I think being Asian PUA in the U.S actually gives you big plus points because it's so uncommon that when you got game, chicks notice it right away and they dig it so much because it's so different and for sure something they've NEVER experiecned before. It can trigger the shit out of their emotions.

Women always want something that stands out. So imagine an Asian guy approach HB9-10 white(or any other race) chicks with confidence(big, I mean massive balls!) , great body language, tonality, vibe, humor, congrugence, DHV. And the most important shit is just don't give a fuck! The whole room start to notice you too becuase it's some exotic shit you rarely seen, like a Maserati or some shit!

I've done it more than a few times now just walking up to some HB's table and claim my space and start gaming them, they never not like it. So whatever I do, I don't ask for permissions anymore because it works.

Women are illogical and controlled by their feelings and emotions, weird shit! I guess that;s why we call it an "art".

Yea, i like in vancouver too, personally I'm caucasion, but one of my best friends (and wings) is asian. He's actually having a lot of trouble at the moment, he doesnt speak the best english and he is having serious problems. Would be good if u could sarge with him if you wanna msg me.

_________________
Bitches be trippin

If any of you guys ever come to the Los Angeles area...give me heads up and we'll hit up the town.