can anyone plz give me a few hints or tips on how to turn a girl that ive been seen for a lil bit on. i kno she has feelings for me and i have some toward her also, but i cant do anything sexual with her cuz she tells me i have to turn her on first. i flip it around on her sayin it should be the opposite,she actualy turns me on.

any tips on how to make a girl horny would be greatly appreatiated

Well turning them on envolves sexual feelings and actions. You need to set up a good night to be something minerly romantic or fun. When you kiss her be suductive, kiss her neck, smile more, give her more eye contact, pull her hair in a kiss. There are many things, these are a few


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Well the best way to turn a girl on is with kino escalation, duh . Touch her neck, wrists, inner thigh, in between her fingers. Brush lightly with your hands. The best way to turn a girl on is by giving her a massage. Regular massages, in the right places, will also help increase the frequency and intensity of her orgasms. Just check out some vids online if u dont know how to massage. In order to not make it seem like a reward for not doing anything tell her ur feeling tense and need a massage and tell her if its good you might return the favor.

Massages oils will def help. and make sure to learn how to massage her breasts, butt, and, i cant think of the word, but the area north of her vag, mound i think. with a massage you are releasing her stress, while turning her on.

Hope this helps

This is a good question as I was googling the exact same thing

How would one turn a girl on without touching? i.e. using just words maybe? although im sure that this needs to be coupled with kino.

Like they said, kino escalation is a must. Also I found it's easy to get her in the mood by just telling the girl a funny joke about sex, make fun of something about it, and ask her about it. At this point, she more like already laughed at your joke, so she will feel comfortable and naturally answer your question. Dont make it too personal, keep making more jokes and raise the bar. Watch her expression, and at some point, instead of making the story about other ppl, try to put you and her in the context so make her subconsciously thinks about it, do it discreetly thou.
At this point, if she plays along, you know what to do.

why wouldn't you touch as well???

sometimes, if you can read what a girl would be into, sometimes you can escalate the conversation to practically become semi-pornographic.

telling you'll slowly kiss/nibble your way along her shoulders, up her neck, then slowly down her side before making your way between her legs CAN work, but only if she's in a comfortable/attracted enough state with you.

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Its the discreet bit that im not sure about - how would one change the context, to get her thinking of her and I havin sex, discreetly? Im very abrupt person thats my issue.

I always think that asking the question "whats your ultimate fantasy - sexually" does the trick or also state that "I read a report on sexual fantasies for women and its so different from the male fantasies" anything to start a sexual conversation I guess.

Ktime - I would touch all day long but just by expressing using words - can raise the tension right?

Touching her shows confidence, do it progressively though, also sexual feeling can be created by the way you speak. I.e, what you say and how you say it.

All depends how your conversation is going, biggest thing is, show you have no fear and you want her, drop the worried part of you, life's to short.

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K I'll give you an example. This is the conversation I had with this girl that I hooked up with a while ago. Note, I did some rapport and kino before we were getting to this point, so she was pretty comfortable with me already. We were talking about the Scream ride at six flag, she told she doesnt wanna try that one since she heard from the news that this girl's leg got chopped off by a broken cable.
HB8: I love my legs, I dont wanna lose them
Me: That reminds me of a joke. There is this girl telling her gf that she hates it when her bf bring her flower. Her friend askes why, she said "Everytime he does that, I have to spend the next 2 days with her legs on the air"
HB8 laughed at my joke hardcore, then we joked around with how can ppl do it for 2 whole days.
Me: It would be harder for guys cuz they usually do most the work
HB8: No, not really, it depends.
Me: Well if you spend 2 days with your legs on the air, obviously I would be the one doing most of the work.
HB8: Yea you're right, but we can always take turns.

She played along here without any denying, I know I was in, so I raised the bar and talked about positions and asked her what her favorite position. From that point on, I always put me and her into the picture. Next thing you know, I told her I had to go out with couple friends but not until later, and asked her if she wanna take a walk around the park with me for a bit, we ended up at her place.
The point here is make she think/imagine her and you having sex, doing stuffs without making it obvious. Play it cool as a joke, she will just follow your lead and joke around with it, next thing she knows, she starts getting pictures in her head.

Women need to be aroused mentally, otherwise they will resist physical intimacy.

So assuming you already have done so, whisper something in her ear, and lightly (accidentally) brush your lips up against her ear lobe. Maybe even brush her hair out of the way when you do this.

This is a good place to begin.

Once you've recieved enough IOIs to feel confident, I cannot advocate the caveman method enough.