I am able to occassionally get lays from dates and also from nightclubs but it is often too much work and I don't care for socialising other than with my own friends, I don't want to have to do it to get laid there must be an easier way,

I went to a bar that was easy to pull and there was no having to DHV or win over her friends or any bullshit the girl who was about a 7 was all over me in seconds with just some simple banter, I tried the so called easy bar in the place where I moved to now and it was the same as all the other places where you have to work and compete with other guys,

Has anyone ever tried sex clubs or any where you just meet girls to have sex no bullshit (definitely not prozzies though I am not interested in that and don't have the money lol)?

It seems a bit silly to have to go to nightclubs and spend hours there when you don't even want to be there just to get some play occassionally, or to chat to dozens of women on the street and in shops to get dates and a lay eventually out of that. Doesn't seem that efficient surely things should have evolved by now. I tried online dating and that is even more difficult am not sure why though.

I feel like a chump having to work so hard to get laid a high status male shouldn't have to do all this.

Is there an easier and better way only thing I can think of are sex clubs and easy bars?

I found festivals to be good and got some play there even though I didn't go for that but to enjoy the music and drinking with friends.

Well, if you are an alpha male, most women in your social circle should be somewhat attracted to you, so with some confort you should be able to get laid with them.

it wouldn't be work if you had fun with it.

maybe your answer is just jerking off?

why would you want to just have sex for the sake of having sex?

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If that was the case then you won't have the problem you are having would you? If you want the easy way out either pay for it or join a swingers group.

if you don't want to put in the effort into getting laid, then pay for it.

The problem is that you see women as an obstacle between you and sex. Ideally meeting and trying to sleep with different women should be enjoyable. But I think that you may have built up a slight resentment toward women. Not in a bad, masochistic way, more of in a "you don't know what you're turning down" way. If that makes any sense to you. You are angry that they have put up this barrier between you and them, and at the same time it has hurt your confidence and self-image. And it seems rather than trying to further figure out why the barrier exists, you've chosen to find a loop whole around it, in the form of sex clubs and easy bars.

I think that the only solution here is to stop projecting this problem onto the women you are pursuing. This problem must originate with you. One of the hardest things in life is admitting faults in yourself and that you are doing something wrong, but it is the only way to fix it so that you can do it right.

You might not like to socialize with people other than your friends. And I know change is hard. But if you don't change, things will stay the same. And you are not happy with the way things are now. So your only option is to change.

I'm not going to lie to you, it will probably be hard for you at first to go out and meet new women out of your social circle. You are going to be out of your usually comfort zone and you are going to feel very vulnerable. But the rewards far out way the cost.

Is this how you want to spend the rest of your life? Stuck in your own small social group, sleeping with whatever girl happens to wander into it. Or do you want to have the power to choose. The power to walk up to the girls you want, to get the girls you think you deserve. Take control of your life. Don't settle for less than you deserve. Life is too short. Deep down you know you deserve better than sex clubs and easy bars.

That's why guys get girlfriends, dude. So they don't have to put effort into getting laid.