how do i get my girlfriend to do things for me. im always doing things for her, im always there when she needs me. it´s just that when i need her, she´s not arround.

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Because girls don't like sex.. Yeah RIGHT!
Why else do you think girls have P*ssies

honestly i would have to know what type of person she is

i have to say the best plan is just asking though like i need you to be there for me more

but macho it up a lil haha

next time you invite her over be like can you bring ___ but make sure its something she will have to go out of her way for like renting a movie or picking up some chips and dip. if she acts like its a chore then i doubt shell do things for you without you asking and its on to the next one.

I say play a little,test reactions.One week stop doing things for her,see how she's reacting.Slooowly,not in afc-way.I mean you're slowly loosing interest because she's asking you to do things.

Hey guys! I'm in a similar situation here. I'm new here btw, came here to learn about PU and ended up getting a gf (when all i wanted at first was to PU her).

We've been tgt for abt a mth+ now. And I feel like i'm doing much more for her than she is for me. One reason could be she just had a bad breakup (ex was abusive, and after the breakup kept stirring shit and calling her, her friends, and all that AFC begging crap).

Things I do for her are like, i'm always there when she needs me. Sometimes when something is wrong she just tell mes "i need you, pls stay with me" and i'd be there. I just came back from an overseas trip and landed at 4am. And yet i drive over to meet her, when i have a minor surgery at 11am. And after the surgery, she tells me she needs to discuss sth with me and i leave home to meet her.

Now, i feel like she doesn't do as much for me. She said she'd cook for me since i can't eat well after the oral surgery, but she isn't even here. She tells me that her schedule this week is kinda busy and she'll let me know when we could meet.

And a couple other things similar to this. Sorry for long post and thanks alot guys any input would be appreciated.

i think that the previous advice is good, put her to the test. I mean i am kind of in a similar situation except it is my bf the one who isn't giving much to the relationship, but anyway... i think you are going to feel bad about it unless you discuss it with her... if you ask her to do things and she won't then eventually you will have to be open and talk to her about it... it she still won't understand or start putting in as much effort as you are then the relationship is not equal... and you won't be happy. I mean it is really easy to receive but you must also give back.

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