Hi, am the sort of guy that when talking i'll always refer to "i have a friend" when really i mean myself and the problems about my friend (myself) are me talking.
I am terrible with women i'll be 100% honest with you lot, i haven't slept with a girl yet and only ever kissed 1!! I stumbled across a book called the rules of the game, i even started the day challenges but i felt to embarressed and shy to finish them. The only time i feel in the zone so to speak is when am DJ-ing.

I get so many girls wanting to talk to me but i shit it, i am ok talking to them but anything else i am like a snails eye when touched, i retreat. my first kiss was at work after a night dj-ing a young girl said "aww your the dj your amazing" and then kissed me i was like SSSHHHIITT awesome in side but it ended there for me. I have read some peoples field reports who don't have a problem with confidence just holding a conversation these guys a fucking natural and deserve a mention first of what a read was a member called Energy_, he seems like he knows what he's doing and also Dave O he seems a natural with the ladies, and also Vikratos_ he also seem confident, and also Finnly seems confident also these guys are all new to this just like me but seem so natural.

I have read alot of peoples reports but mainly the new members because i wanted to see how i compared to others. lol if you read the reports the guys have writen am sure you will understand were am coming from. the difference i noticed was they are all good at creating a mental picture and also funny to read.
i know i sound like a suck up but if you were so behind as me in life guys like that should really need to be on site like this because there naturals, who could become PUA monsters haha.

Anyway please help with your opinions please......lol i need them.

I took some notes from a seminar by AFC Adam recently about how to be a natural.

You need to display three main traits to become a natural.

1: Condidence: Try to open sets all the time. Closing is the hard part. Dont have approach anxiet y. Girls want to be accepted without being told they are amazing. Just try talking to them. You dont have to fuck every girl you talk to. Just practice asking where the new starbucks or something is. You know? Just TALK.

2. Abundance of Women: Doesnt matter about how many number you have in your phone if you dont talk to any of the women in them. how many girls in your phone would want to hang out if you asked them to? Have girls ready to sarge with. Talk to them, let them know you arent trying to sleep with them. You should still sexually escalade with them and be confident. If you are friends with a bunch of girl and you are looked on as that 'non-gay gay friend' who they dont mind undressing infront of... that fucking solid. That means that you can call up those girls to go clubbing with you. If you walk into a club with like 10 girls on your arms, all the girls who see you walk in are going to think that you are some hot shot and will naturally assume you are fuckin all those girls, and in contrast will want to fuck you.

3. Sexual Escalation: Practice some no value kino. Like boob graze a girl but make it by accident. Dont apologize. Just brush her breast while talking with your hands. I recently tried something AFC ADAM said and that is to tell a girl that you wont sleep with her on the first night because you arent that easy. When you are bringing her back to your place, or offering. I did this 4 days ago and got laid. Check out my lay report.

You master these three traits and you will be a natural. I know I did. I used to be afriad to embarass myself by approaching, but Ive realized, you barely ever get shut down, only if you come off as creepy. Remember you arent trying to fuck every girl that you talk to, so dont think like that. Dont be afraid to talk to a girl. Are you afraid to talk to your sister? No cus you arent going to fuck her. set a framework and you wont be afraid to talk to girls. But always hit on them and sexually escalade that is important. Hope this helps.

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Look thanks for a mention, Freesh is right though buddy, i never use to be full of confidence.
especially when i was younger, but i do work in catering and i do meet new people every day this has really helped. look up a PUA called Alex Coulson on youtube, he has great day game.
good luck man just think to yourself, mystery was 21 when he lost his virginity.
p.s if you don't now who mystery is i suggest you google him!!

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