Hey guys wanted to know what you guys say to the common 'im fat/ugly' the thing a girl says that is obvious she wants a reply like 'No your not, i think you are beautiful!' When this happens i always try and flag the statement and change subject quickly.

Your thoughts?

I got this the other day, and again, from my limited knowledge she's fishing for compliments. I would used to say 'yeh, dead fat' sarcastically being a AFC. But I'm not sure what I would say either, I just tried to ignore it and move onto another subject but I'd like a good reply to this too please.

Interesting. To add to this i have ssaid something along the lines off 'It could be alot worse' As long as you can make sure they dont take it to heart haha

"well, that's okay"

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Agree with them that they are.

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i hate it when girls say such things.

I think you should neither compliment them, nor agreeing with them. So don't say "no, you're beautifull!", and don't ever dare to say "yeah, you're right. you are fat!". there are some players who dare to say such things on a playfull way, and wxho get (playfully?) beaten by the girl and then make out, but i shouldn't try it.

say something like "if you think you're too fat, go do some jogging then. i heard from a friend that blablabla ..." and start a conversation about sport.
or bust them for complaining, if you're annoyed by this.

but it's not easy. some girls just wanna stick to their tought "i'm so fat!", even if they'e not, that it can ruin a whole conversation. i get bored by such girls, realy.

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i wouldnt agree straight out with her but start talking about workouts and such or depending say somthing like you are fat but beautifal ( spelt that wrong)

you should try it some time. works wonders

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TD has talked about this before. His advice was to just say something like "i don't really judge that" and basically just ignore it.

Whatever you do, don't respond logically with something lame like "no way baby, you're so beautiful"

I also think its important to not agree nor disagree. Although if you flag it off, it will make them think later...he didnt really give me an answer... so yeah could work

You say whatever you want.

If a hot girl said this to me, I'd argue with her and tell her how beautiful she is OR I'd tell her to shut the fuck up and don't speak such nonsense in my presence.

If a fat girl said this to me, I'd say "Yeah, I guess, but your personality makes up for it"

Say what you want dude! It's your opinion, not ours.

I think a girl's weight is a touchy subject, so use "Yeah, you are" with caution, and never if the girl actually could lose even a couple pounds.

A great semi-neg for this:
"It's in all the right places, though."

You could also just call her out:
"Stop fishing for for compliments, honey"

I see a recurring problem here. Many men, traumatised by their past life as doormats, try to do the exact opposite and end up behaving like immature twats, showing their resentment towards women. That's a sign of immaturity and insecurity. A real man is above all that. A real man loves women.