SO I started seeing this girl about 2 wks ago everything was going well, hung out for like 4 consecutive days (i know bad form) then she seemed kinda distant the last time we hung out which was thursday, not very much kino not as much make out etc...

I didnt call her Fri. and I got no response from her thru text/call I texted her late fri night and she didnt respond till the next day just saying she was busy sat night w/her friend, I texted her back and asked what time are we supposed to go to this show on sunday - no response that night

So I wait it out dont hear from her sunday until like 2 when she says shes got some stuff going on and shes not sure if shes gonna have time so I text back saying hey no worries, let me know... ill be playin music 4 a few hrs. - no response

Saw her on fb later that night and I decide to msg her kept it short casual yet kinda flirty with her but still being kinda distant so that was sunday...

I start a freeze out after this and havent called or texted since sunday, today is now Wednesday should I call or text now or just leave it alone? We had what seemed to be a great connection and then all of a sudden I get nothing? wtf?

What would you fellas do? Am I playing this right and if I do text or call should I ask her about why we havent talked or just go on like everythings normal?

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Play the game like poker - theres always ways to improve- always a way to come back after a bad hand, don't show your ACE right away

If she is playing the pro-nouns game she found someone else. On top of that you ere a bit overly persistent, you should have waited 2 days after the first 2 times she was "busy" and then started talking about shit that doesnt pertain to her life or yours being busy, but can lead to stimulating conversation to get her interest back.

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"Once you have achieved perfection, you have achieved failure." - Me

Yeah well I sucked and failed with this girl. Ha oh well I ended up going to see her at her job cause she works at a restaurant stopped by to get food for everyone at work so it was alright I said hey havent head from u in a while and shes like yeah the phone works both ways (saw this as an opening) I told her id been busy but wanted to know if I could see her that night she said maybe... I texted her a few hrs later saying

hey I was just checking on my maybe she replied
haha well i think i just need some time right now and i will let you know when i want to hang out or you can call me but I just need to figure some things out
I just said ok appreciate the heads up let me know.
she said ok I will

Havent tried contacting her since she obviously hasnt contacted me either - terrible! IM still gaming a few others so it's all good but damn I wish it wouldve gone a little better. its been about 2 wks or so since no contact Ive just let it go unless you guys think theres a way to get things going again... let me know

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Play the game like poker - theres always ways to improve- always a way to come back after a bad hand, don't show your ACE right away

Hey Trick Artist,

Don't be to hard on yourself. There will be plenty more opportunities in the future with girl's that are willing to give you their time. This girl seems to have been caught at a bad time and she is not clear on what she wants.

In these situations, it is ideal to step away from it and let her decide what she wants. She has your number and can contact you at anytime.

While I understand that you may feel its "your fault" , let me reassure my friend it's not.

The only suggestion I can make, is that you try to work on distance. Seeing her 4 days in a row or seeing anyone 4 days in a row is overwhelming. I can't stand my best friend 4days in row lol.

But who cares, you showed you liked her, and if she doesn't want to give you the time of day, fuck it HER LOSS.

good gamin

peace

QFT^^

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"Once you have achieved perfection, you have achieved failure." - Me

Appreciate the input fellas.

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Play the game like poker - theres always ways to improve- always a way to come back after a bad hand, don't show your ACE right away

hehe! good luck m8