People get nervous when they are in mid conversation with women and I think that gets in the way of building comfort with women. You can go through your opener and go through a routine but you are still talking to her like a girl you just met at a bar...essentially a stranger. She can feel that discomfort and formality.

A lot of posts will tell you WHAT to say....but what to say doesn't mean shit if you're nervous and robotic.

Here is a little trick I use to gain instant comfort in conversation. Once you open, imagine you are talking to a girl you've been dating for 4 months. Trick yourself into thinking this and don't be afraid to start building kino. Talk calm and casually...If you use a tone that you would use with a girl you already know well....she will be able to tell and will also feel at ease about the conversation. Within 5 minutes I can make a girl feel like she has been my friend for months....

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Very good post, I can also set my tone and thoughts to think that, although im not sure if within just 5 minutes i can make her feel like weve been friends for months!

Props for that!

But i guess experience is everything!

Alternatively...

A few ways to build rapport rapidly...

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Nice post. I think this is a key point a lot of people can relate to.

Reminds me of Gunwitch. Anyone who's read his method should remember the whole, "Talks like a duck, walks like a duck, must be a duck analogy". As in, if you talk as though she's already attracted and act as though she's already attracted to you, chances are, she'll be attracted to you.

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