I rarely have girls ask me a qualifier, or at least a good qualifier, and usually I believe if they are trying to make you qualify you f'ed up somewhere's but last nite I walked into something and I've been thinking all day about this and have not thought of anything especially good to say back/deflect to what happened last nite. i need help with it

Some girls wanted to go to the strip club so we all went, not expecting to do anything or try n pick any strippers up.
anyways I was fucking up this set bad with a stripper but figured my frame could carry me. what I said was just trash garbage and I feel that the set is trapped for a good deflect back at her but ill show the part where is gets f'd up

Me:what you doing after work?
her: goin back home at 2
Me: .....(i dont think I said anything just gave her the cmon look)
her: I dont go home with customers
Me: Dont think of me as a customer think of me as somethin special
Her: (checks me out) I dont see anything special about you, what makes you so special?
Me: (in head shit!! i dont have shit for this lets just see what happens if I actually try to qualify myself) I used to race snowmobiles
her: oh, I dont like winter sports, I like water sports. that doesnt seem very special do you have anything else?
Me: (Im just fucked, like elephant dick, pound in the ass, no reach-around, jungle fucked!)(I throw the set) and say: no thats about it.
blah blah anyways she ends up telling me i give off to much of an asshole vibe and she likes nice guys blah blah.

the bold is the part I would like some ideas thrown around on how to deal with that question plus the neghit on me right b4 that question.

This qualifier could also be called a shit test but..who cares

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I would've said something like, "You'll have to find out"

or "That's cute, you want to know about my whole life story already"

That question put you in the spotlight...
They say NLP always works, maybe you could memorise a pattern that would make her feel attracted or horny or whatever your aim is.

Strip clubs are funny. If it's towards the end of the month and they need money for rent, don't bother trying to pick them up. They are there to make the quick cash.

Secondly, don't ever give them money. They don't take home customers, and the minute you give them a dollar you are now a customer.
Sounds like she is being a bitch, but instead of trying to qualify yourself by telling her about your interests, you maybe could have said something like, "well I know I have better dance moves than you..."

I always tell strippers I don't think they are very good and that I think I'm better. Then I tell them they could pay me to hang out but they're crazy if they think I'm going to pay them. "I'd pay you to be a good cook, or to clean my apartment before I paid you to dance."

Some strippers are a lost cause and you won't be able to bang them out...it's all a luck of the draw and how you handle the situations....

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Her: (checks me out) I dont see anything special about you, what makes you so special?

Me: Special recognizes Special....maybe thats why your not seeing anything special.

I like this. Very much like something I would say.



Alternatively...

Me: We'll have to go somewhere a little more private for you to find that out.


^Hinting at it being something sexual. Escalates things, and puts her a little on the backfoot, it's a little more 'risky', so can shift the whole balance of things.

Is all about sex.

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Jav: "bashing chodes 24/7 ftw"
Slywalker: "Neg the bagel"
Slywalker: "I had a 1yr old GF when I was 19"
SS_Trunks:I asked her for an extra pen, confidently....

I think hinting at things being sexual and using that to put her on her back foot might not work since you are in a strip club. Everything is sexual...that is their comfort zone, that is what they do for money. Making this sexual is their goal.

How about making it not sexual, and take their power away.....that would be more my objective.

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Oh snap, didn't bother reading the background. Didn't realise was in a strip club. Ohhhhhhhkay, the whole thing seems a bit wrong. But lemme try answer from that one part though... (Now I have a better understanding of the situation...)


Me: Well let us sort out a way for you to find that out, and in the mean time, how are you going to help me find out what it is that's so special about you?



Perhaps, I don't know. Could say so many different things, all comes down to what you come up with at the time, the situation, the girl, what suits you, blah blah blah.


The thing you don't want to do, is start having scripted responses. Though, as a player, you can end up with things that you seem to end up saying quite frequently.


Love
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Munroe: "I kinoed the hell out of that goat"
Jav: "bashing chodes 24/7 ftw"
Slywalker: "Neg the bagel"
Slywalker: "I had a 1yr old GF when I was 19"
SS_Trunks:I asked her for an extra pen, confidently....

yah strip clubs are not the best place but I really needed the answer to comeback at qualifiers that are set in this way, that was the real point of asking this for future reference.

yes I know I shoodnt have actually tried to qualify but my head was empty and I already knew I was fucked
ha I like that.
that cute one is awesome and sounds like something I would have said, nice, I feel the cute also de-sexualizes the strip club which is a plus since it is oversexualized.


I have to agree with bachelor code on this one, a strip club is one of the few places where it is oversexualized and to be successful it needs to be less sexual something. I had to try at the club though for the sake of experience outside of my norms, its what makes you better. Any other place tryin to sexualize it would have made it better but its one of those places.
I doubt she was trying to be a bitch but then again from earlier she had called me an asshole when she did some dance on the pull and was like that was reallly hard, did you see that. I just said yah I've seen it all. she called me an a-hole and acted all pissy perhaps to get back at me, she kept asking me if there was anything special about me after that as if I was gonna wow her but shit happens.

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