Just as the title says. It is not exactly one-itis. It is slight attachment and jealousy that I feel about this girl. I just feel like she should be mine for some reason. I feel like some guys that she is with are not close to as good as I am. It has become hard for me to show her how much better I am because I became AFC and needy already with her (ex. calling/texting too much). I eventually got a hold of myself and analyzed my game entirely at this point in time. My game and attitudes have changed almost entirely since, eliminating most traces of my AFC/needy personality aspects. This was an experience for the better.


Background info:

This was the first amazingly hot girl I've SUCCESSFULLY gamed (by success I mean sex). She is from the same school in a different state from my home of the United States. Also this happened right before my summer break in college (approx. 3 months ago).

She is the type of girl that doesn't want a relationship, however she wants to have sex without being viewed as a slut. Still she is on my mind a lot. I have gamed some girls since I last saw her (some being more attractive personality wise), however this girl from school is the one that is always on my mind. I think it might be because she is a challenge.



The trigger tonight:

We have spoken every so often since we went on break. I have changed a lot since she last saw me at school. I know she will see me again in about 6 weeks because I re-initiated attraction, however I just found out via facebook that she has been seeing some guy and he asked her out to dinner. I just got really jealous. It is bothering me only because she won't see me while we live in the same state! She is enthusiastic about seeing me when we are in school though. She is the typical blonde ditzy type of girl though. Not the sharpest tool in the shed. I wouldn't expect her to focus in on me (considering that she doesn't realize a lot of things).

The issue affecting me:

The issue about this one-itis is that I just started gaming higher-quality qirls up until recently. I think I want this one girl because I can't have control over her. What is the best method to deal with any attachment from now on? I find this a special issue from the other posts on one-itis because it would almost be impossible for a guy to be attracted to some girls (ex. this girl I am having the issue with).

I just want to do something to help me not care about what other girls are doing so much. It is not like I am crazy about one girl it is that I care too much about what a girl is doing. Any advice is appreciated.

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It is exactly one-itis.

I think I might just be in denial haha.

Anyway I think my problem has to do with me not being able to go anywhere where there are a lot of good looking girls (ex. Clubs and bars). All of my friends are 21+ and I am still 20, so I cannot go to bars yet. I think I might get over it when I go back to school and start meeting new girls again. I have some trouble finding hobbies because I am usually busy doing work or reading. I generally cant focus on too many things at once.

I think I'll just man up and get over this. I'll start going to the gym more and reading more.

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