I'm chatting with this chick online and she messaged me initially and said "you're cute" that was all she said. So then I responded: "thanks, and what does that win me??" (I used that from this forum! thanks guys.) She replied with: "Well for 5 more dollars you get 3 more darts and you can upgrade your prize to a mini bike"
She's clever eh. I laughed for a few minutes at that. How should I respond to this??? What sort of cocky funny spin should i put on this. Im puzzled! Any suggestions as to what I can say. I have a few ideas but they probably are not good.

thanks

I'll skip the backstory seeing it's something all of us probably have experienced. But what to do if a girl is playing with you. A brazilian girl said over a hundred times (not exagerating) she loved me and likes me etc. But since last week she's just ignoring me. She doesn't reply on text messages, when i see her it's just hi. I tend to be quite suspicious to these type of things so I didn't go running after her. When I saw her last time she started talking to me and i asked what she was up to that night. She was going to this bar at 10 and was going to text me. She didn't, so i got kinda flaked.

What is the advice for these kind of situations? Just let it pass and try to forget? Or is there still an option to "gain control" over the situation? Because i assume most among us don't like when there on the losing end of the situation. How to overplay girls that are playing?

I have a big goal in mind and that is to become the biggest player at my high school my final year. My obstacles are my bad reputation and a couple of haters (old friends i ditched) How do i overcome my bad rep? Im not bad at talking to girls and im fairly good looking but i used to be really shy and my reputation and social life is shit now because of it. I understand the social proof thing but its really hard to feel comfortable around people who dont respect you. Any suggestions on how to break my rep with girls or just break my shitty rep in general?

Hey sup
i Work at a restaurant and there are soo many HBs that walk in,
i usually crack a cocky funny line but i dont know where else to go from there any suggestions?

"Make it 2 dollars and put a full tank of petrol in that mini bike and you have a deal "
- It just shows you can compromise and still push for what you want while having a fun time.

Try not to plan what you say word for word as much - what is more important is thinking about what you are trying to communicate and let the words come naturally .

Arrange a time to meet - make it fun and as if you are going to do it anyway so it wont effect you if she doesn't show up.
Now if she shows that's awesome but lets say she doesn't.
- text her saying how she missed out on a great time because something cool happened and then continue to say you don't find flaking on meeting up acceptable.
- See what she says to that and if you feel her response is good enough then suggest another time to meet up.
- if she flakes a second time simple send her a text saying something along these lines:
"Hey, shame you didn't turn up today cos it would have been a blast. Your a cool girl but I have to much going on in my life to make plans with someone and have them just waste it. Let me know if something cool comes up though".
Then you have to just leave it - she isn't worth it but you left the door open for her to come to you.

Find the school mineworkers. These are the people who know everyone and everything social going on.
Get good friends with a few of them and try to keep the situation that you are the AMOG.
Let them take you into new situations and slowly build up. A good way to go about this is to start on the groups who don't know you or about your rep and then use your social proof in one group to bounce you into the next.
Start small, work up. Social proof is a lot like money - they more you have the more you can get!

Good day pua's, this is the first time that I will reply in a thread.
I'm gonna tell first about me so you could understand what I want to achieve by asking these questions. I'm a morrocan (Nord african) dude who lives in Antwerp (Belgium),I'm almost 22 ,I was born and raised here,I'm a kind of social guy, many people known me around town in a positive way. well the morrocan boys are known to be negative(agressive , unpolite, cheaters,etc) when it comes to pick up.There are a lot of assholes(sorry for being unpolite), that mess up things for me. So All lot of (young)women are a bit afraid to date a morrocan and they but their guard up as soon as a morrocan tries to pick them up,sometimes when I go in field, I aprroach a girl or a set, Everything goes well but I get the feeling that they're judgemental about my origine.I fully understand why, but it's killing my game.
What can I do to avoid being shut down because of that?

grtz
The modern Warrior

Stop blaming your skin.

You got to work with what you have and it is perfectly possible to sarge in your condition. You're looking for excuses to say "poor me". Don't do that.

You are right man , but i'm still learning , but which each approach I get the feeling that it's better than the approach before and that keeps me motivated

Why would a girl go crawling back into a relationship with a guy after explaining a fair bit on how neurotic the guy is? The neurotic guy is also the same guy that took her virginity if that helps with the answer.

I just find this painfully incomprehensible.

The thing that is keeping me in a better mood about this is pretending that she just pulled off one of the most elaborate troll moves I've ever known.

I was given a suggestion that if I wanted revenge I would just have to act like nothing happened and continue to stay nice and this would give her a big mind fuck. Is this true?

Hi. So i'm your average afc, green behind the ears when it comes to handling women. Now yesterday my mother (which runs a certain business) met up with this really hot girl at our place and i joined the convo. Now the girl would throw me these really deep looks and smile with her lips half open in a sensual way when my mother wasn't payin attention, would run her hand through her hair and she asked me if i'd join in whatever they were planning on doing a few days later. Now she came off as really one of the sweetest and most adorable girls i've ever met,a total surprise since i expected her to be a bitch. Now i don't really have time to properly research this in 2 days, and i don't really expect to succeed in havin any sort of relationship with this girl givwn the fact that i'm an afc but how would you guys treat or handle or what woul be the genwral aproach to this kind of sweet/lovable/cute/kind girl? Would you be a super dominant alpha or goofy or whatnot? I'm kind of planning this to be an initiation, a test of how i'd handle myself and i'd apreciate it if you'd give me some general attitude input. Sorry for the typos, on my iphone.

She did it because he did something that attracted her. Maybe he didn't give a shit about not being with her, maybe he made her orgasm so much and so well she missed the sex. Bottom line - he was attractive to her (more positive than negative).

Are you wanting to be with girl?

As for revenge, I strongly advise against it regardless of your intentions with the girl. Revenge never ends well.

Actually if you read my revenge plot its pretty much so passive-aggressive that I'm not actually taking any action at all over this matter.

I just ended up deleting connections from her on facebook since I don't think it would be healthy for me to see if she can somehow create another mindfuck. It took me about a week to cool down which could have been a week where I feel ok to approach women without something negative stuck in my mind.

She was the girl that made me feel attractive. That made me care for her. I don't want her as much as I did anymore I just hope she isn't going back into the same bs she has whined about before, I'm more worried about that. If I found out she was dating some other bloke I would have been supportive, it would make me think that she is learning to move on because from knowing her and her past it looks like she has a habit for stagnating.

reading hellblazer's "one last love song" makes me get over the whole thing. the story has a repeating line that goes like this: "one last love song, to bring me back, and then move on." Always keep moving on.

So I've been talking to this HB8 for a while, but she lives in a different city now for school. But anytime she comes back in town, we try and hang out and things have started heating up. Just to be specific, I had my hands down her pants last time I saw her - we were dancing in the club. She was loving it and didn't want to make it obvious what we were doing because she had a friend with her who has always had a crush on me.

After that night, she went back to school and I haven't hung out with her since. We text back and forth and she always hints at wanting to fuck.

So last night, she is back in town for the evening, and I was at a concert and planned to go out afterwards, time permitting. I leave the show, and get a call from my buddy who is out at the bar with her and her friends. He calls and says "get up here, Stephanie has been asking about you all night."

So I get up there and when I get there, I notice her dancing with this other dude and see them making out. Bar was closing in 20 mins so I ignored her and her new guy friend, and waited til we were outside to say what's up to her. I didn't mention it to her, nor did she acknowledge it, but she was happy to see me we made plans to hang out poolside today and get drinks.

Thing is, I just want to fuck this girl. Her making out with the other guy doesn't bother me in the least because I have no real feelings for her other than I want to fuck her. I know she wants me and it's just a matter of time.

So basically I need some advice on how to play this. When I see her next, do I acknowledge the incident and play it off as a non-factor (in my mind it is) or do I just ignore it. I'm pretty certain she doesn't know that I saw her making out with that guy though. I

n short, what's my next move here? I dont want to come off as jealous by mentioning it cause she isn't my gf, which is why I dont care. I just don't want to lose any of the attraction i have built up with her.