I'm 20 and she is in her 30's. I met her through Facebook. (Don't worry about her being a fake, I have proved that she is not.) We messaged back and forth and I told her I visit her city for a month once a year and asked her any good places she might know. She said "We can see some new places together and I can learn at the same time!", suggesting we meet when I arrive there.

Then she asks what my expectations are. I reply to her that I am not looking for a long term thing and I would like to have some "fun" and excitement with NSA. Here is her reply:
From her message, I can see that her intentions are purely friendly. However, I always beleive that actions speak louder than words. I take her words for granted but I also realize that she is leaving an open door by still welcoming me, knowing my intentions and expectations. Maybe she has never thought about it but I might have planted the seeds in her mind, making her think about it until she sees me and also after she meets me in person. I am still willing to give it a try.

I would like to take your opinions on how to proceed and help me lead things to bed.

This is definatly a LAY!
Her intentions is friendship, but she is willing to let all that go to make you happy/enjoy the holiday!

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pure lollllllll
she wants you. If not she would have canceled you coming there.

Any other advice on what to do when I meet her?

I have an update: I met her last night. I used C&F. She usually mentioned the C part about me while she was laughing at them. She was not turned off by the cockiness so I hope it was accomplished. I kinoed her, touched her hand, did palm reading, touched her lower back and she did not resist.

Sadly, her bitch shield were up because of the "nsa fun" mail I sent her. When we were talking about how she decided to meet me, she brought up the mail I sent her about having nsa fun. She said she was afraid of it when she read it for the first time. She said she had problems trusting people. She even asked her friend about it. Then she said she replied to it ignoring the nsa part and agreed to meet me anyway. She said it was natural for me to ask such a thing because of my youth hormones. I acted like it was no deal to me, I said I only offered that as an option, not a requirement to meet. I also mentioned several times in our conversation that we were friends and I made a tease about being interested in guys. I thinks she enjoyed it because she was making jokes about male tourists throwing seductive looks at me when they were passing by!

She also said maybe she might have wanted to do it with me naturally, if I hadn't mentioned it on that e-mail. I took this last thing as a clue that she might be open to it in the future.

We had a talk about being sexually comfortable within and she admitted that she has no problems expressing herself sexually, wearing high heels and mini skirts. She said "It's all about people around who make woman look like sluts.".

By the way, I learned that she is living with her parents so with her parents at home, it wouldn't happen anyway because of logistics. I can't take her to my place because the relatives I am visiting are almost always at home.

She is planning to cook for me next week at her house. I guess that her parents will be away. What are some good ways to seduce her into having sex with me and overcome any bitch shield? I am planning to play the questions game, asking sexual questions in a way that would make her more comfortable with me sexually. Maybe that might make her horny. Any thoughts?

Convince her sex is off the cards, I say. Set up for a dinner and a cuddle by a movie. If you keep being attractive and yet still let her think sex is not on your mind, funnily enough it may cause her to make little advances, which you can playfully respond to, till she's begging you (maybe even just with her eyes) to rip her clothes off.

Have to feel your way through it. If she's being naughty, could punish her by tickling her, see how she reacts. Just be cool like you're in control and you really dont' give a whit about having sex. You really have to not care about the outcome of the situation to pull this off.

It may even be that if you don't have sex its not a total failure. She may be left all bothered that she calls you around for dinner again.

Just play it cool. She thinks you're a horny young guy. My bet is deep down she was subconciously hoping it might turn sexual, but since you brought it right out she feels a bit sullied. It's possible it could happen nautrally, but if she's confronted with it directly, she wants to convince herself she's not the person that wuld sleep with a much younger guy. But if it happens under the radar, she may protest, and you can just give excuses that it doesn't matter, or even say that she can stop any time, give her mini freezouts, etc.

Hey guys, thank you very much for all the advice. I appreciate them.

By the way, this girl is very clingy and now she is sending me spam-like e-mails, saying that she will be taking a day off work to spend time with me the whole day.

I mean, if she is not interested in having sex, what is she interested in? Why would an older woman take her time to hang out with a guy younger than her? Do you have any ideas?

The answer will not affect the way I will play my game but I am wondering anyway.

Fuck her, dont be her gay freind lol

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i would have taken this as a some sort of hoop (MM's Hoop Theory) for u to validate urself to her. as a matter of fact, i would have taken all references to that as a hoop. i personally would have responded by saying something along the lines of, "i'm glad ur as selective as i am. that's important quality to me. by the way, i'm enjoying u tonight! ur doing a great job. keep it up"

anyways, i've been experimenting with a few older targets (35-40) the past few weekends. my view so far is that although they are at a stage in their life where if they are single and would like to find a "husband," they are realistic enough to know that that is not so easy to find someone compatible for marriage. and therefore, they are more independent and confident enough to have ONS or fark buddies. being that they are in their sexual peak, it makes sense. i would try to keep it in a sexual state on next meet. less need for "hard to get" and qualifying type teasing. if u tease, keep it SEXUAL the whole time to progressively raise her buying temp. push/pull sexually. High kino sucking, kissing, nibbling, etc. followed with, "we gotta slow this down...ur making me be bad." also, with older women, it's important to control frame. they often use frame strength as a disqualifier or shit test.

my two cents anyway. good luck man!

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