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For me it depends on where you are in life.
If you are an AFC and dont got shit going for you plus you have problems up to your neck then the obvious answer would be A
A because im gonna need someone there for me, someone who will help release some of the burden/tension, someone happy to be my rock, someone who MAKES ME HAPPY and someone who comes along and most of my troubles seem to fade away because of her. so yea, if you at that time and you find that special SOMEONE, i'd advise to KEEP HER!
Now if you are a fairly wealthy man who seems to not have any problems or dilemas in life, and always gets what he wants then yea B would be my answer.
"Do what you want, and FUCK whom you want!"
How to write this without being a dick?
Dont take this the wrong way now but this is exactly the kind of reasoning you have when you desperately try to see yourself as a PUA.
Your world is divided into AFC and PUA and you convince yourself and everyone else that you are the latter. In fact you push it too hard which means that that view would be easily destroyed if someone puts you to the test. The desperation I sense is enough to tell me that you have come far but you are not a Jedi yet.
This kind of mantra-like beliefs are helping you out but as you progress you will find that they hold you back and that you will have to update your beliefs.
Basically you are telling me that only weak people want to have a relationship and that the powerful man takes what he wants and dont care. Thats exactly the other way around.
I mean, I have been around I have had your way of thinking and I have progressed through that stage. I know exactly what you are trying to say but i disagree.
Maybe this is the only way to get rid of your AFC self and go into PUA. But when you mature you realize that it is not a weakness to be able to love. It is not about having someone who supports you and shit. It is just that sometime you find someone that fits you so awesomely that it is worth keeping her around. She fills all of your needs and she is sexy enough that sex with her is awesome!
In my case Ill admit that my optimal girl would be bisexual with a hot best friend of about 21 years that doesnt age... But well, you cant get it all.
What Im trying to say is that when you no longer have the need to prove to anyone that you are a PUA you can throw all those limiting beliefs away. I mean, yes, Im a player, I am and not because I want to be but because I cant help myself. I got the skills and I got the low moral fiber.
But, you will understand that choosing a girlfriend or wife instead of a number of nasty lays isnt the way a loser does it. It could be but it could also be the reasoning of a winner. To choose the nasty stripper however is the choice of only one stage, the one before you really truly become a PUA.
First off, im not saying im a AFC nor am i saying im a PUA. Im only just stating when there are problems, problems you cant cope with alone, problems that seem to be progressing every minute of the day, thats when most will seek another partner to help deal with those problems/obsticals. Its like family, when some turn 18 or 20 they leave the house and go out to face the world. mmost return with a list of problems that only our family can help with (i know i do), some only see there family when they do have troubles in thier life, for others who dont have a family, they tend to rely on others such as friends and nieghbors. so im just saying when we are in trouble, and we cant handle it... we tend to rely on the help of others
Never in my life have i seen anyone ask for a companion when they dont need one.
And im beyound this whole AFC/PUA crap.
i dont think like PUAs do, and i dont talk like an AFC...
im simply me, i have no game,..... scratch that i have the "no game" game.
i just dont let obsticals get in my way.... thats why i go out there with MY OWN beliefs and do what i WANT TO DO, and FUCK who i want to FUCK!
NOTHING GETS IN MY WAY WHEN IM IN THE ZONE, I AM THE MATRIX!
lol i dont know wtf i just said,
as im typing im currently not my consious self!
CHAT
