So, last night we kinda admitted to liking each other.

Some problems:

-she likes two other guys along with me
-she is a prude girl, so no way of hooking up
-she doesn't want a boyfriend until school starts

good things:
-she has called me around four times, and talks to me for 2 hours at a time

(EDIT: She just called me and told me the reason she called me tonight because she "isnt in a texting mood" and she told me that she "called ____ and ____ tonight to see if they knew wat we (our summer group of friends) were doing tomorrow"
idk if that was all the other times or just tonight)


-she says that i am "too smart for a guy" and that I am "different.......in a good way"
-she also said to me "I am the teaser, not the one that gets teased. but your making it difficult"


I think she is starting to lean towards me but the problem is that she doesnt want a boyfriend and she is a prude girl.

Now I have to compete with two other guys, for two more months. Right now, I seriously don't have any cute girls I have been meeting so I kinda am focused on her.

What should I do?

stop focussing on her. look for more cute girls.

your in friendship land. a prude is only a prude if you give her time to think about her values.

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how am I in friendship land????

I know she has physical attraction to me and I believe I am slowly building emotional attraction.

Only thing is that I have competition and its for two months! I dont want her to lose interest or to slip into the friendship zone.

Should I ignore what she said and try and just go in for the kiss???

No, don't go for a kiss without attraction. No desperation moves unless you're ready to give up. Well, she called you last, I doubt this is a good position. I think you're still in the running, but you are right on the cusp of friendzone if those are the BEST three things she's said to you. Those aren't strong at all, even for friend flirting. If you don't want to compete, then give up and hope you made enough of an impression that she'll come to you. Doubt that will happen because she's stringing you along. Oh, she wants a boyfriend, you just haven't impressed her that much and she's waiting for someone that will. Rule 7 of PUA: What a girl says isn't what a girl means (Case and point "We're not gonna have sex.").

You think this girl is prude? Bullshit, she's just better at keeping secrets than the other girls. You want to turn this around? Stop talking on the phone! You ARE KILLING your chances with talk. Talking on the phone is boring and it won't get you anywhere because you can barely build attraction, you sure as hell can't do it for 2 hours. It fills her needs, but you're not really getting crap in return except an earful of nonsense. You know who likes to talk on the phone? Highschool girls. "Too smart for a guy" can also mean you think like a girl. It IS starting to sound like you might be one of the girls to her. Spend time with her, in person and use some kino. The idea of kino is that none of it SEEMS sexual so even strangers will let you do it and start to feel arousal. Get this girl in front of you and TOUCH her unless you want to start being invited to fourway conference calls with her other girlfriends.

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Cute kid . . .

She's working harder than most newbie pua's around here.

Minsok nailed it.

The OP is being forced to compete with other guys for the next 2 months? Sounds like this girl is the PUA in the relationship.

Start seeking other girls

I guess I am not telling you the entire story but we both are in highschool . =-/

She is a flirt, so all three of us guys that she likes, she physically flirts with us.


I dont need kino because we already hug and touch alot......only problem is she also does it with the other guys that she likes.


What is the next step?

We already have heavy physical touching, but its flirty and not sexual......


I was thinking of using "the claw"??? anyone think I should use the claw??
Completely stop talking to her on the phone???

Damn. that sounds like my ex! I tell ya, she is NOT a prude girl lol

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Adam Lyons said something on this on a pua-training dvd: 'Women collect people!'
they collect people but dont have sex with them! for example they have their 'ahem' friends to take them out drinking, they have their 'ahem' friends to take them shopping, and so on but importantly THEY DONT HAVE SEX WITH THEM, they flirt keep the guy interested but dont sleep with them, its their way of not being lonely on a saturday night. i imagine she probably is sleeping with someone..

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she is a huge flirt but she says the farthest she has gone was made out with her ex-boyfriend....

she says pornography is disgusting, and vagina's and penises are gross....sex education is gross....

she is prude......or not mature enough to understand sex

she maybe a germophobe or religious, maybe she's saving herself for marriage

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hahaha no we are both atheist......she is just kinda, young.......

she says--she says

I say they all lie alot

so can we get back on topic?

She is a flirt, so all three of us guys that she likes, she physically flirts with us.


I dont need kino because we already hug and touch alot......only problem is she also does it with the other guys that she likes.


What is the next step?

We already have heavy physical touching, but its flirty and not sexual......


I was thinking of using "the claw"??? anyone think I should use the claw??
Completely stop talking to her on the phone???

she maybe very immature and just not ready to have sex especially as you say shes a virgin, it could be a fear of sex

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