Ok so i pretty much had this girl who really liked me, texted me every morning, all the time. for like 2 months we pretty much had a constant convo going. heres how i think i messed up.
.DLV- i answered right away, invited her out too much, called her every night.
.Was kind of shy
. Didnt escalate with kino AT ALL
.AFC like the entire time
Now we went on a date a few days ago, and i caught her txting her ex while we were eating dinner. I got all pissed and told her to take me home (she drives, im working on it!!). She asked me what was wrong, through text like 10 mins after she dropped me off, and i told her. She apologized, and stupid me accepted her apology right away.

now she doesnt initiate text anymore, and hardly replys. how can i fix this mess???
I feel like ill never get a chance with a girl this hot.

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"Um, I'm very important. I have many leather-bound books, and my apartment smells of rich mahogany."

You messed up. To her, you are needy, insecure, and displayed a total lack of confidence/trust.

Try to run into her and display Alpha personality. try making her laugh and act like the other incident didn't faze you

Good luck

moneyshot92:

You need to move on. The only chance you would have with this girl is to:

1. STOP BEING AN AFC. If you know what you are doing is wrong, stop.

2. Talk to other women. If she sees you with other women, you are showing that you are not AFC, that other women find you attractive, and by a sub-product, are giving her less and less attention. If she is interested in you, she will fight for your attention. This is when you immediately escalate and close. You can NOT wait around any longer.