University (after getting my AA at a community college). UTA with 26,000 students (52% females). I spent 8 years in the Army and now I'm going to be with a bunch of young girls so I don't want to be that old creep trying to pickup teenage girls.

Am I too old to actively pursue college girls? I look like if I'm 24-26 with a athletic/muscular frame and above average looks. So how do I go about pursuing these girls without being that "old" creep?

Any advice on how to behave or approach college girls would be very helpful.



-I'm recently divorced and a father of 2. Will that mess up my game? Just asking, its not like I intend to tell every girl I meet that I'm divorced and a father... Just saying

No, dummy. I live in a college town, I'm 28. If you're too old, then I am too old. If I'm too old, then I don't know why I can't hook up with anyone over 24. Girls our age are just too set in their ways for me. If you just want to hook up, then you might want to keep the kids and divorce under wraps. If you want a serious relationship, then you have to talk about it early on. These days having kids is a point against you if you're going for younger girls, but you successfully passed on your DNA, so you win anyway. Being divorced probably doesn't matter much. The fact that you're worried you might look like an old creep is what's going to screw you up. I look like I'm 20, so I don't know how to fight that. Maybe you should try shaving your junk totally clean. It's hard not to feel like you're 12 after that. Honestly, what the hell are you worried about, do you not know who Lady Gaga and Kim Kardashian are?

Yeah man go for it. Why would they think you were creepy? I'm sure there are a lot of girls fed up with all the AFC college dorks. You'll be there to give 'em a stuffin.

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Oh yeah (sorry about double post)

I am an rAFC and how do you best approach women on College campus you ask?

I'll tell you how, shave, trim your finger nails, dress up to varying degrees but do not take it too far. I mean look nice but no more nice then the occasion calls for.

Don't even think about it. Ask them anything. Make any excuse to make conversation and do not give a rip about rejection, there is no reason to:

What's in that bag/purse?
What do you think of that guy over there?
Those are some nice legs, do you workout often? (In gym)

For me situational openers are the best.

I see that she is dressed really nice, for instance, I ask her what the occasion is. She will usually tell me. The more you talk and open, I guarantee you the better you will get. You will get to a point where it doesn't even matter to you any more. You'll be just like, ok I'm talking to another girl and then instead of going after her SHE'S COMING AFTER YOU!

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Uh, I don't know about those openers. I'm not a girl, so I can't say for sure, but they're creepy. Do you give her a full body eye rape before you compliment her legs? You have classes with these women. Boom. Instant topic of conversation. You were in the Army for 8 years. Who doesn't love a good army story? Lesbians, that's who. You're an interesting guy aren't you? Just don't talk about your kids, non-breeders don't get into that, and don't talk about your ex-wife ever. If you talk nice about her, it looks like you miss her, if you bash her, that looks even worse.

I had to ask cause its been over 5 years since I was single.

Yeah I don't plan on saying I was married and have 2 kids unless asked (I never deny my kids). I'm definitely going to open as many sets as possible. UTA has a huge gym that's made for non athlete students with a couple basketball courts, ping pong tables, computer recreation area, pools, and free weights - machines.

Yeah definitely don't pretend you don't have kids. Lying about something is a sign that you feel shame. I didn't consider that you have been out of the scene for that long, so let me rephrase in a nicer way. A lot of girls 20 and up are satisfied with guys our age. 22-23 seems to be the sweet spot. Your age is totally compatible and girls in this age group are surprisingly smart and mature despite the age difference. Best of all, they don't act like teenagers when it comes to sex.

Once I start gaming these girls in college and get them to feel comfortable - I'm going to use SS patterns on them.

I'm excited, love this message board and all the PUA material out in the market. Utorrent is your friend