I like wearing hats when I'm out clubbing only prob is girls keep taking them off me! It's a great ice breaker but is there anyway I can deal with this situation without come across as an AFC and letting girls have all the power in this situation. Sometimes they disappear and I never see the hat again!

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Lol. Don't worry about losing the hat, make sure you don't lose the girl!

Best way probably is to prevent girls from taking them off: If a girl grabs it, get it back and tell her: "Hands of the merchandise". Which gives you an advantage: You're in set.
Mystery is the absolute king of peacocking. Get some material on what he does.

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Like bits said, if you are going to wear a hat, be prepared to use it as a "peacocking piece".

I would recommend buying cheap hats, but they usually don't look right or fit your style.

It's not AFC for you to let her take it. You are AFC based on what you do after she takes it:

1. You could do the "hands of the merchandise" approach (Mystery Method)
2. Lets say she puts it on, you adjust it. If she puts it on forward, turn it backwards, or w.e., and say I like it better on you this way.
3. Just roll with it. Leaving the item with her is a great way to re-open the set, and keep her thinking about you all night.

Bottom line...if you are that concerned about actually losing the hat, don't wear it in uncontrollable situations, like a club.

I liked something Mystery once said when a girl tried to remove his big goggles.

"None of that, young lady"

That's a neg, a DHV, an opener, and a false disqualification all in one.

I think her response was "I'm Alyssa and I'm in love with you."

What if you're in a loud & noisy club? I had a really tall girl take off my sunglasses, put them on, and then wave me goodbye. I couldn't say anything because it was noisy and she was too tall for me to talk in her ear.

Is there a way to DHV by body language other than waving her to give it back?