She likes three guys, including me. Only problem is that she really doesn't flirt with me as much as she does with the others.

The only real IOI's i have gotten are compliments on my body and super long hugs....but things like ,re-initiating a conversation when I end one or walk away, she doesnt do.



-Her mom thinks I am cute so thats bonus points, right?

-She is younger than me and I told her I am a lot more mature than other guys my age, isnt that what younger girls find attractive?

-I ALWAYS make her laugh

-Every time she calls our conversations go from a short 2 minute question, to an enjoyable hour long conversation......


Now she posted pics on facebook of her and another guy, i presume its her ex-boyfriend, hugging and playing around at the park.
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I dont know if she is doing this to get all us boys jealous or what?!

Is she just an attention whore? because thats what i am starting to think....

I have been kind of ignoring her lately and let her chase me but dont know what to do to "win her over"???

She is an attention whore + probably a flirt. I hate these types of girls.

Game her better. Ask yourself "what will make me cooler than the other guys?" Thats how you can win her over.

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what will make me cooler than the other guys????


DHV??


will complimenting her work or just give into her attention whoreness??



if i kiss her and tell her close personal information about myself and ask personal info about her, is it possible she could fall for me??

if i tell her i enjoy talking to her or tell her personal information about myself, would it help me or make me seem like a pussy?


or should i just start to COMPLETELY ignore her?

And no,it isnt a bonus point if the mother thinks you're cute.

2nd.ly,women dont care for maturity until she has you.

So because you're mature than the other guys doesnt give you an edge.

Remember logics & how illogical women are.

They my say(verbally)they want a mature guy,but the always end up dting and laying immature guys(irrational & contradictive-but just women).

Hey Don Juan 89,I think you're giving Hockey833 the wrong advice in a sense.

He shouldnt b trying to be more cool than te others.

He should be caring less.

Stop being on the phone with this chicc or any chicc for 2 hrs.(lol)!!!

Dont you have a life??

That's what the girl is asking herself.

I guarantee the other 2 guys arent on the phone with her but for 1 minute and they brush her off by telling her they have shit to do.

While you constantly make phone love and getting her warmed up,just to go bang another guy.

So you're doing the work for the other guy who'l be laying her.

You dont need to be doing cooler things than other guys.

You need to back off of this girl and give her space to think of you.

Stop calling her often.

Only stay on phone with her for less than 2 min.(even that's too long).

Only thing you should be doing on phone with her is setting up a meet-that's it.

Build comfort in person,not over phone!!

Don Juan 89 said she's an attention-whore.

Well Hockey,stop giving her that damn attention,then let her chase you.

That guy in her fb pics isnt her ex.

He's 1 of the guys she's chasing,trying to please,because he's a challenge to her.

He doesnt stay on phone with her for 2 hours!

Give her space,and watch her chase.

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thanks for the advice, i am gonna take your advice and see if it works

hockey833:

k-loc has it here.

First off, don't take it personal. You are on a PUA forum, presumably trying to learn how to pick up and get with as many girls as possible. Is it so wrong that she wants to be with multiple guys?

No, girls want sex just like guys do, so get over it.

Also, you definitely don't want to "try" more. In fact, its the opposite. Women are illogical, and by doing less for her, talking to her less, giving her less attention, you will increase your attraction. She will think, why is he not all over me like the other guys? BUT YOU CAN'T JUST DROP OFF HER RADAR...because obviously, she will not care. You need to stick to the principles learned on this site.

1. Set up face to face meetup
2. Build rapport in person
3. KINO ESCALATION (A MUST or you will get LJBF guaranteed)
4. Close

If she makes excuses to why you can't meet up...freeze her out.

If this is too hard for you with this girl, for w.e. reason, move on.

my problem is that the other guys also dont pay that much attention to her because they dont like her. I believe its only me and this other guy that like her.

I am thinking of creating a status in which she would probably say:
"all the good girls except for me"

I will then say:
"ya, too bad I realized your not my type"

......is that a neg or is that just telling her to stop chasing me???


I would say something like that, start slightly ignoring her and push her away.

then pull her back in in by giving her a compliment and trying to kiss her and using "the claw" sometime afterwards.

would pushing and pulling her help??

Thanks for the re-enforcement NikoGr.

You're on target with everything you said also.

He needs to be doing less but he cannot fall off radar because a girl who has men in her life wont give a shit.

So if Hockey833 calls her 3 times per day.Start calling her 3 times per week or every other 3 days or something.

Dont fall off the radar as NikoGr advised.

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I would be careful about NEGs online.

NEGs are all about tone and delivery. If the aren't said in a blatantly C/F or joking way, they are just rude.

So facebook saying that and in person are two different things.

you guys have it all wrong, she is the one that calls me and then continues the conversation. I have yet to call her except for a quick question.

and i was asking:

"I realized your not my type =-)"

is it a neg or, would it just tell her to move on to the next guy?

Well Hockey 833,that is a classic neg-the most classic in the community over many years.

It's great,but this' the prob' as NikoGR stated about negging online,the target cannot realy get whre you're coming from since she canot see your expressions.

To use a neg like that online would be semi-suicidal.

I'd done it by using the same neg years ago on yahoo messenger but it backfired.

Leave the hevy disqualifying negs for face to face combat where the target can see that you're bantering.

Ok,so we have it all wrong.

You're telling us that it's actually the girl who' chasing you or calling you all the time.

Then whats the prob'?

Why havent you gotten intimate yet or f-closed this chicc?

You have the pus-pull concept down pack,but you should be with her when doing push pull instead of doing it over facebook chat.

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1. She isnt really chasing me that much. She calls me to ask me a question and turns it into an hour long conversation. She has only done it two or three times. The only other IOI's are compliments on my body.

My problem is that I try and flirt with her and she kinda shrugs it off or I will try to playfully grab her or wrestle her and she will playfully smile and laugh and say "no"........ like wtf!!?

I also have walked away to see if she re initiates the conversation and she doesnt!


She has told my friends I am one of the boys she likes, but she doesn't show it at all!
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2. The reason I havent tried anything is because we hang out almost every night with our group of friends, about 10 of us. I can NEVER isolate us or her from the group.

Well as far as the isolation is concerned,Im wondering what tactics you're using.

By the sound of it,she's part of your peer group so I dont see why it's so hard to isolate her.

It's not like you need to befriend the obstacles(her friends)in order to isolate her because all of yall know each other.

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With negs online or over text, you have to do more building her up, and then dropping in that neg. I was texting this girl, cause she asked what personality traits I like in a girl, I responded "well, she has to be nice, but not so much that I feel like an ass everytime I open my mouth, and she has to have a sense of humor, or at least know when I'm funny." she responded "Know when your funny? haha" then I said "Yeah, just like that that. too bad you're not nice enough, you might actually have a chance with me."

That's a good neg. Enough humor built up to know I'm messing around and having fun, and then I drop the neg. She ended up trying to qualify herself a little bit.

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