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| bluemoon | PostPosted: Tue Jun 29, 2010 4:58 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Feb 09, 2009 12:32 am Posts: 106 | | How does the game change when you meet a girl through friends rather than picking up a stranger? What can you do more efficiently when you have this social proof going for you?
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| Vuvuzela | PostPosted: Tue Jun 29, 2010 5:08 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Tue Jun 22, 2010 4:14 pm Posts: 86 | | For me it's a really big difference. With strangers it's easier in my opinion, she doesn't know you, the 'mysterious' component is still there and helps you. Whereas if she knows you through her friends, it's harder. People will notice what goes on between you two and there will be pressure. Also the risk of rejection leading to social devalue is high. So play it safe. _________________ "To know what people really think, pay regard to what they do, rather than what they say. "
René Descartes
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| quickdrawyall | PostPosted: Tue Jun 29, 2010 6:02 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Tue Jun 08, 2010 10:45 pm Posts: 150 | | While vuvu gives some good points, I think it's easier in other ways. Things are casual and not very awkward if you meet through friends. I think there's also more comfort naturally. _________________ I will never claim my suggestions to be what is purely right. These are just what they are: suggestions. If I give a suggestion to you and it sounds good, but backfires miserably, do not blame me. I can't guarantee you anything.
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| lalu | PostPosted: Tue Jun 29, 2010 7:15 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Thu Jun 03, 2010 5:31 pm Posts: 87 | | If your friend presents you with the right words she will get attracted to you, and even if he just says hey this is jonny and this is jenna it will be easier to create comfort.
I don't think that fear of rejection applies if you are the alpha male.
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