Hey Ashernshuga,

Welcome back to the forum. As for this girl, she's been really dodgy. She's going to study abroad next month and I think she's trying to avoid getting involved with anyone. I can't realy put on my full force game with her because we work at the same place and my job is at risk. I have no choice but to be passive, just throwing out bait (suggestions) in my texts to her and seeing if she'll grab again. This is why a PUA should always be working multiple girls at any given time: you will go crazy if you focus all your energy on one girl.

Hey Prefix,

Not sure I understand your question. Are you asking me what I do for a living?

June 25

I finish work, it's raining outside. I am spent from the weeks events and my plan is to take the night off. I head over to the supermarket to buy some stuff. I spot a very voluptious mature HB, but the timing isn't right so I don't approach. As I finish bagging my groceries I make eye contact with a young HB before she walks out of the supermarket. I follow behind her for a bit and then when we get to a cross walk I stand beside her and casually open with my Slang Opener (mentioned on previous page).

Here's a useful tip for you guys. I've found that if you walk around the in the rain without and umbrella and the girl has an umbrella, she will share it with you. This builds instant kino. Most girls will hand me the umbrella since I am taller and then I will hold it for the two of us. I'm sure there are all kinds of psychological factors behind that gesture, but basically, it's a gesture of leadership from the man and compliance from the women. As for the kino, the two of you now begin walking in a confined space together under and umbrella. This builds some kind of intimacy.

With this girl I approached, I put my hand over her hand and we held the umbrella together. After a bit of talking and expanding the opener into personal questions I put in a time constraint, told her I had to go meet a friend, and that was my segway into the number close.

Literally within a minue I see the voluptious mature HB walking towards me. I look back to make sure the HB I just clozed was out of site and then I opened voluptious HB. Did the same routine and number clozed her as well.

I like number clozing girls quickly and in succession. I don't like roaming around wasting my time. It really helps once you get a role. The more you walk around aimlessly and "think" about number closing, the more of a task it becomes.

Number Closes: 2
June Total: 56

June 26: Direct Openers

I was really busy with work today and it was pouring buckets all day. Just a shitty day for street pick up in general, yet their were tons of hot girls walking around the city.

I was going to a different job site and I was late. I mean I had NO TIME to fuck around. I had stopped off at a supermarket near the train station to buy a drink. As I'm walking out this HB10 appears in front of me. She is wearing tight jeans and her hass just looks amazing. I mean FUCKING amazing!!!

I have a huge delimma in my mind. I am already late and my job is one in which I cannot afford to be late. On the other hand that ass just looks so delicious...

Hormones take over, and since I have no time I just say fuck it and go for a direct opener. I tap her on the shoulder from behind (not recommended). She turns around. I gesture for her to take her headphones out. She complies. I smile.

Me: Hi, my name is Clozer. (I stick out my hand for a handshake). I work as a xxxx, and I'm on my way to a job right now. In fact, I'm late so I really have to get going. I just wanted to talk to you because you are beautiful.

(I then threw the brakes on in my mind scolding myself for having complimented her)

Her: Oh, wow. You surprised me. blah blah blah (I really wasn't listening)

Me: (trying to recover) Right, I'm sorry, you're not full-on beautiful, just a tad beautiful (smile) (she smiles)

exchanged a few more personal questions and then I number closed

Number closes: 1
June Total: 57

[quote="Clozer"Here's a useful tip for you guys. I've found that if you walk around the in the rain without and umbrella and the girl has an umbrella, she will share it with you. [/quote]

But wouldn't that be awkward? I mean if you both knew you were going to the same locale that would be ok. But if I randomly approach a chick to share an umbrella the first thought in her mind might question where I'm going because we might be going in different directions. Seems impractical on the streets.

How to rectify this situation?

Well, after I've opened her and she's "taken" the bate I'm golden until I go for the number close. So we walk together for a minute or two and then I stop. When I stop, she stops. I then wrap up the set, put out a time constraint and then attempt to number close. I just say, "My car is parked over there" or, "I'm going this way". It's is a simple as that.

Tell me, how many girls have you approached on the street this week? If you're uncomfortable with opening then I can see how the umbrella technique could be uncomfortable for you.

Direct Openers (continued)

So after I number closed the hot HB 10 with the direct opener I thought I would try again. After work I walked around downtown. There HB 10's everywhere. Problem was, most of them were with their boyfriends. Finally I stopped an HB8 and I said, "You look like a nice person, so I just thought I'd talk to you to see if I was right."

In my head this opener worked because who would want to be an asshole after being told that they look like a nice person? I don't what went wrong. I was really nervous when I did the approach and I had no confidence at all. The girl gave me a look like I was an old homeless man covered in dripping shit. I mean she literally looked at me like I had just come out of the coo-coo house. She didn't even reply and just walked away. Ouch, that hurt.

June 27

After work I saw so many hot girls walking around downtown I just had to make some effort and seize the day. So first I went home, got out of my work clothes, rested up and then hit the streets near the train station closest to where I live. I told myself I'd go out for an hour.

I did around 10 approaches. They were all falling flat. I noticed that a lot of girls would run their fingers through their hair when I talked to them. I always thought this was an IOI, but I think sometimes it means the girl is nervous, as in uncomfortable with the situation, so she grooms herself to make herself feel calmer.

I talked up two young college girls passing out flyers in front of the restuarant they worked at. I used a new Opener that I read from Chopper's field reports. I told them that my sister was pregnant in her 3rd trimester and was feeling lousy every day and what kind of gift should I give her. Well, it was a good opener and it really go the girls attention and got them into the story. One girl suggested a fruit basket and flowers. However, while they were talking to me they wouldn't stop hawking the flyers to people walking by. I was hoping that I could stop them from doing that in order to momentarily alter their reality. However, after the girl suggested the gifts I could by I had no idea how to carry out the rest of the set or how to transition it into a number close. Guess I should have thought about that before I opened.

Finally after 10 or so rejections and an hour of walking around I approached a girl and did my SD Opener. She took the "bait" and started walking with me to show me a place. While we were walking she started asking me personal questions. This is the best indicator of interest from a female. She said she was new in town. The number close was easy. I've noticed that girls who are new in town will generally give out their phone number.

Immediately after closing her I approached a girl waiting at the light. I did the SD Opener again. I've also been practicing using light kino once I've hooked the girl with my opener. I think it worked well because after I number closed this short little HB8 who was really cute, she was actually kino'ing me back. This is the first time since I've started my 2010 field reports that I can recall a girl kino'ing me back.

Another thing I have noticed is that most girls WILL NOT ask me my name even if they do show other IOI's. I'm wondering why this is. I like to ask the girl her name and then after she tells me I make some comment about it to extend small talk and then I pause, just go totally silent, and wait for her to ask me my name. BUT THEY NEVER DO!!! Maybe they are nervous and forget to ask, I don't know.

Number Closes: 2
June Total: 59

I have opened around 12 sets this week. I usually use an opinion opener such as "Hey, do you think my 2 piercings make me look gay?" (Usually works best with a wing) and a situational opener such as "Do you know where to get locally designed clothes?" (Since I live in China and this might DHV me given that I have interest in the local culture??)

By taking the bait, do you mean that she asks you questions in return?

June 28 (mid day report)

Approach 1: Walked over to the gym today only to find out it was closed. Well, since I spent all this time and energy to walk over here might as well make some use out of it. I use the Slang Opener to HB7 with nice rack walking by. She ends up giving me the best and most detailed answer ever. From the energy she was putting into the "task" I had given her I thought it would be a sure number close. I did some light kino on her arm once and then slowly shifted into personal questions. I then noticed that her body language changed and she started to stand farther away from me. She didn't return the personal questions and I could see she was trying to exit the conversation. I just said thank you and let her be on her way.

I take the long way home which passes by the hospital. I'm always weary about opening girls from the hospital since I have lived in this neighborhood for about 6 years and I have f clozed a dozen or so nurses and a couple of doctors. I think my name has been going around between the hospital staff because every time I number close a nurse from that hosptial these days she never replies back to me.

Approach 2: I see an HB9 walking towards me coming from the hospital. She's walking next to a dude, but I realize she is not with the dude. I am hesitant to open her because I don't want the dude to interfere. Hormones triumph and I tap her on the shoulder and gesture for her to take off her headphones. She does and then I do the Slang Opener. A big smile comes across her face and she attempts to answer. I then shift into personal questions. She doesn't return any questions. I then tell her that I'll need to ask her more questions about Japanese slang, pull out my phone and say, "Do you have infra-red on your phone?"

Her: Okay, can you send me your info (this is usually an avoidance tactic by women. They'll take my info but they won't contact me)

I then ignore what she said and just continue on another thread while putting my phone back in my pocket. I tell her more about myself (to build comfort for her). After 2 or 3 minutes of that I pull out my phone again

Me: Okay, go ahead and infra-red your info to me
Her: Okay, but, really, I want you to send yours to me
Me: Umm, sorry, I can't do that. I can't just give my info to a complete stranger. I don't know who you are going to sell it to (smiling) (stealing her frame tactic)
Her: Come on, just send me your info. It's better that way.
Me: Nope, sorry. This can't be one-sided. I believe in equality in a relationship. So tell you what. If I send you my info you will have to send me yours.
Her: (laughing) okay

June 28

As I was heading to a different job site I saw one of the hottest girls I have ever seen in my life. Her ass was just amazing. Hands down the best ass I have ever seen in this country. When I approached her I was nervous as hell. I could feel my heart beating through my chest. Every molecule in my body demanded that I breed with this woman. I never get heart-thumping-through-chest nervous when I pick up other HB10's, but this one was special.

I came soooo close to number closing her, but then she changed her mind at the last minute. My game was so weak. One reason is because I had to approach her from the side as she was just about to walk through the ticket gate at the train station, which means she knew it was a direct approach towards her. I'm sure my nervousness showed as well. I kept telling myself to calm down. When I should have been acting cool and relaxed I was acting nervous and fearful that I would lose her. Instead of making her work to get to know me I was huffing and puffing out questions like a mad man. It was all soooo wrong!!!

I felt so depressed after not being able to number close her. Her ass, however, was extremely inspiring and motivated me deeply to get sex. I managed to pick up an HB6 with an HB9 ass. She was walking her dog and was giving me IOI's like crazy right from the start so it was an easy close.

Number closes: 2
June Total: 61

June 29

I went out into the main downtown area around 8pm. It was tough out there. On two of my approaches the girl just walked by without evening acknowledging me. Those are the ones that sting the most. One girl I even stood solidly in front of as she walked towards me. Even touched her shoulder with my hand as I started to speak to her and she just walked through me like I was a ghost.

This has been a shitty month for me. I kiss closed 3 girls (2 of them HB10's). Usually it's pretty easy to get to the f-close after that but they all had buyers remorse. Dammit!!! How can I avoide that? Two of them had boyfriends. There was also an HB9 young college girl I had been texting all month. Without fail every morning and every night she texted me. Lots of sweet talk. The big night came when were supposed to meet for her to sleep over at my place and she cancelled a few hours before the meet time. Never heard from her again. I must have dedicated at least 8 loads to this girl just thinking about the night we would meet. How frustarating to have wasted all that energy on her.

Number closed 2 girls with SD Opener and 1 girls with Slang Opener.

Number Closes: 3
June Total: 64

Usually that'd be based on a lack of rapport. Hence before closing you normally want to build enough rapport so that in the cold light of day, when you aren't flicking all her attraction switches she doesn't feel like a slut but instead like there was something more. If it's already happened I'd escalate to phone game and build rapport that way. However, given the boyfriend thing maybe it was inevitable (what can I say I'm a romantic!
Again, I wouldn't give up on this, I think a lack of rapport is again suggested. There's only so much you can achieve trough text, and given that you were mainly sweet talk, without the attraction spikes what was there for her but a cheap feeling like she was just meeting you for sex. I'd call and act like you hadn't even noticed her flake. Build some rapport, DHV some more, why cut the thread early. If you forget her now you definitely lose, if you reinitiate you at least stand the chance of salvaging it. But that's just my two cents.

Exactly. Too Joda-ish my English was?

Hey Prefix,

Can't really discuss personal info here. I have a sweet job though which gives me a lot of free time and a nice salary. Living here is tough, however. Everything is so damn small. Apartments and houses are horrible and it costs and a ton of money to travel around inside the country. The cost of living is also prohibitively expensive. In fact, the only reason I enjoy living here is because I just love f-clozing this J-girls. If it weren't for that I'd leave this place in a second.