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We sat in my car smoking and basically i was telling her that I wanted to kiss her etc and asking her why, she likes me but not doin anything about it.
I'll give you as simple a break down as I can and please take this constructively not as an attack on you as it is no such thing.
1.) Don't ask horribly insecure questions, girls don't want to answer this question because it means they feel like theyre giving you pointers on how to attract them.
2.) You aren't going to get a kiss talking about it. Just like having to work to attract her, you have to work to seduce her into a mood where she'll be open to physical contact like that. I'd like to break it down for you by asking you a question. Have you ever heard a girl say;
"I shouldn't have to tell him, he should just do it!"
^ Seriously, a huge portion of women like men who take the lead. I'm sorry to say I think you've lost this one, and I think you should brush it off and keep truckin cuz there's a couple billion of em out there.
I actually agree with you. I am insecure but ive had three years of a horrible period and although I am back on my feet I am still a touch insecure when it comes to girls.
I also agree about the asking for a kiss. I didnt really ask but more tried it on and I know she wanted to but for some reason she keeps on holding back with me. Thats why I kinda asked so that she would feel more comfortable and also it would mean that I stop rather than thinkin she is playing hard to get.
The tension between us is just too much though and it isnt one way. If you like a girl but the girl doesnt like you its easier to deal with but this is unknown territory because we both like each other (maybe i like her more than she likes me)
As for shock and awe - I guess I did try that at the start and when she turned away - thats the point i got insecure and started asking.
CHAT
