You get attraction by being good looking and/or confident. You can be confident by just approaching with no fear. Attraction happens in SECONDS. Girls aren't "sluts". That's a double standard. Guys can sleep with hundreds of girls and be cool, but girls do it and are "sluts".

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c'mon... your a guy, who cares who we lose our virginity too?

See the bold part in his post. I think you miss the part where he said she sleeps around a lot. So unless that has another meaning that I don't know of, I think she is promiscuous (not that is a bad thing).

Well, thats the thing.

She sleeps around because she can.

He dont because he cant.

He labels her as a slut because life is unfair.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

My Exact Analysis.

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She is part of my inner group of friends that I hang out with regularly. I really just want to remove her from my life and seriously commit to improving my ability at attracting girls. This is going to be an ugly road. I hate that my life is like this.

you realise for guys averages to be higher, there must be alot of male/male sex right?

if for every time a guy gets laid, so too does one girl, the averages HAVE to remain even.

girls averages seem lower because they don't tell it honeslty.

oh and for the record, female average isn't 3/4... it's closer to 34. the sooner i became comfortable with that, the easier my life became.

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If you want to know how to be successful with women, learn to obediance train your dog...

Ya 34 seems about right lol

F: she's a "good" girl who likes to be submissive in the sack, and loves the feeling of being used as a dirty "slut". my experience. plenty of girls love this.

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The fuck buddy i have that is also probably going to turn into my "one-itis"'s number is over 50. mine is 15, you'd think that would bother me, but it's healthy for the soul to hear your better than 49 other guys

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You do realize there are more females in the world then males right?
Or being promiscuous is look down upon on girls depending on their culture.
Try 6.

http://abcnews.go.com/Primetime/PollVau ... 921&page=1

But hey you know averages say nothing.

The averages are about the same but how it happens is different. 95% of the girls fuck 5% of the guys... Thats more or less how it works.

Plus the girls you want are the attractive ones. Per definition she has a lot of suitors, chances are she tries her way to the best one. So basically there are ugs who never have sex and some that marry one guy and never have sex with anyone else. Then the attractive ones have sex with waaaaay! more guys. Most girls I know have had 20+ partners. but they are girls I have around me, players find players...


Anyways...
"slut" isnt the same as a slut.
Dude. I love those girls! They are awesome. But one type of slut is the one who sleeps around. The other kind is the submissive dirty little slut who is yours and yours alone. I so love dirty nasty kinky little hobbitses... (Not you Hobbit.)
But, still, thats not the girls you talk about the word just happens to be the same. I cant bear to bear bear fur...

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn