i was thinking for the newbies, if there was a single piece of advice what would it be???
i ve been around the game for quite a long time (nearly 4 years and i was in the lss forum in its first 500 members) and i thought there should be a thread from the experienced to newbies with a single piece of advice. something to either inspire or a tip or a quote just something to motivate or change their perception.... i know this thread will disappear into obscurrity on this forum but i thought i would try and start or share something

heres my thing to pass on

'Dare to be different' and 'dont imitate, innovate'[/b]

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life sucks and then you die! deal with it

I was 27 years old the first time I died. I remember there was white everywhere. There was war and I felt alive, but really I was dead.

Sometimes I think we live through things only to be able to say "it happened." That it wasn't to someone else, it was to me. Sometimes we live to beat the odds. I'm not crazy, even thought they thought I was. I live in the same world as everyone else, I just saw more of it, as I'm sure you have. They'll find my body tomorrow. You can check it out if you don't believe me. I've seen life after my death.

And I'm telling you because it's the only way to help you and your daughter have a better life of your own. Jean, you're gonna pass out one day smoking a cigarette and burn to death. Your daughter grows up living the same sad life you're living right now, and she misses you so much.

Sometimes, life can only really begin with the knowledge of death. That it can all end, even if you least want it to. Important thing in life is to believe that while you're alive it's never too late. I promise you Jean, no matter how bad things look, they look better awake than they do asleep. And when you die there is only one thing you want to happen.

You want to come back.

- Written by T. Bleecker and M. Rocco, for the movie "The Jacket."

I am an rAFC, I have found so far that truly examining ones beliefs is of utmost importance.

Write out a series of lists of what you believe and think about yourself.

Such categories are:

Why do I want to play "the game?"
How do I feel women think of me?
How do I think of myself?
How will I know if I succeeded?
How do I think about life?

Write any category that you feel you need to explore.

Write two lists:

1. What you believe now.
2. What you need to believe to be that man you want to be.

Work on adopting the beliefs of the 2nd category.

When I tried this I realized that I had a lot of limiting beliefs. More than I thought I had.

I wrote a list of what I wanted to believe. Read it until I felt it with in my heart. And went out, it worked for me.

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I would say "work on your confidence and don't be afraid to be sexual, as girls want sex as much as us."

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http://www.aaronsleazy.com/files/Aaron. ... munity.pdf

Great!!! I like the Idea!

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DISCLAIMER: All things said/suggested by "civilian" are strictly for entertainment and general information purposes only and does not constitute professional advice. I accept no Liability for such comments or suggestions whatsoever.

My favorite quote from the Game was something like:

"ladies, abandon your boring, mundane life and join me in my existence full of wild, crazy adventures and new and interesting people" - everything you do should convey this.