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openMinded
PostPosted: Fri Jun 25, 2010 8:58 am 
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If a girl thinks/implies that you are not serious about her, how do you respond to that to create even stronger attraction or rapport?

And why do girls doubt you?

I don't know if this detail is important. but let us say this is at the point where the girl has yet to have attraction for you (in other words, they're not attracted to you yet).

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If a girl thinks/implies that you are not serious about her, how do you respond to that to create even stronger attraction or rapport?

And why do girls doubt you?

I don't know if this detail is important. but let us say this is at the point where the girl has yet to have attraction for you (in other words, they're not attracted to you yet).

Thanks in advance guys !
Depends what your looking for, a lay or serious relationship?

I had this not long ago with a girl I met, I told her "your negative, it's off putting, give it in girl" She said "I can't, it's not my fault" I replied "Yeah it is"

For a while I kept speaking normal on and off, keeping things short, she probably clocked on, started being more positive after obviously thinking about what I said.

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If a girl thinks/implies that you are not serious about her, how do you respond to that to create even stronger attraction or rapport?

And why do girls doubt you?

I don't know if this detail is important. but let us say this is at the point where the girl has yet to have attraction for you (in other words, they're not attracted to you yet).

Thanks in advance guys !
Depends what your looking for, a lay or serious relationship?

I had this not long ago with a girl I met, I told her "your negative, it's off putting, give it in girl" She said "I can't, it's not my fault" I replied "Yeah it is"

For a while I kept speaking normal on and off, keeping things short, she probably clocked on, started being more positive after obviously thinking about what I said.
I'm actually looking for a serious relationship, and I have known this girl for a while now.

So basically what I have to do is tell her that she is being negative? Makes sense. How can I not think of that lol. I was about to try proving myself which would have been horrible.

Thanks for saving my life man !

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No worries, she should be proving herself if anyone should. She's negative, not you. Point out she's negative, it shows interest if you think about it too.

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calling her out on negativity. awesome! great way to attack a bitch shield.

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was taking a dump and thought up a line that would sound C/F. call her out on her negativity then say,

"i'll be hanging out on cloud 9. (smile) if u ever get out of ur funk, u should join me sometime." back turn to punish her.

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If a girl thinks/implies that you are not serious about her, how do you respond to that to create even stronger attraction or rapport?

And why do girls doubt you?

I don't know if this detail is important. but let us say this is at the point where the girl has yet to have attraction for you (in other words, they're not attracted to you yet).

Thanks in advance guys !
A girl is attracted to you in SECONDS. In reality girls are not that different from us, they're just punsihed by society for sex, and confidence is more important than looks to them. That said, looks matter and she can tell your confidence in SECONDS. That's a shit test, and just ignore it and plow.
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was taking a dump and thought up a line that would sound C/F. call her out on her negativity then say,

"i'll be hanging out on cloud 9. (smile) if u ever get out of ur funk, u should join me sometime." back turn to punish her.
Nice one Rafiel, gets her mind thinking!

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If a girl thinks/implies that you are not serious about her, how do you respond to that to create even stronger attraction or rapport?

And why do girls doubt you?

I don't know if this detail is important. but let us say this is at the point where the girl has yet to have attraction for you (in other words, they're not attracted to you yet).

Thanks in advance guys !
A girl is attracted to you in SECONDS. In reality girls are not that different from us, they're just punsihed by society for sex, and confidence is more important than looks to them. That said, looks matter and she can tell your confidence in SECONDS. That's a shit test, and just ignore it and plow.
Good point. Treat what she said like rubbish. That shows confidence, because it shows you know that she is "shit testing" you, and you don't give a crap about it.
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was taking a dump and thought up a line that would sound C/F. call her out on her negativity then say,

"i'll be hanging out on cloud 9. (smile) if u ever get out of ur funk, u should join me sometime." back turn to punish her.
Good one! Thanks man !

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