Heey Guys

about 2 months ago, I opened a set, got almost all of their numbers but I liked only 1, lets call her Target.

We texted some back and forth, she is a hb9, gets lots of attention from guys, she is 18 and she is a virgin, i am 21.

she and her friend laughed at my texts, and i got some small ioi's and got some flirting back

it all died about 1.5 months ago, but 1 month ago i texted her hey how are you doing what is your facebook?

lol very complicated, i know.. please bare with me.

now, i got this text back:
haay sorry for my late reply I didnt have any credit!! But I have facebook look me up Target hb9! Kisses


I think:
- the credit excuse is bullshit
- she still wants me to suck up to her and she has not forgot about me
- I have a small window of opportunity left.

How do I go from here? Please help

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Because girls don't like sex.. Yeah RIGHT!
Why else do you think girls have P*ssies

The very fact that this HB9 who receives a lot of attention from males has texted you back at all is a great sign that she is interested in starting something with you. She also told you to look her up on facebook and she told you her facebook name which is another strong indicator that she wants you to pursue her.

Take this from a female - if we are not at least a little interested in a guy, we would not even reply to a message like the one you sent to her. Well, I know that I wouldn't, especially if I had not heard from or spoken to him in a while.
Quite possibly. She might not have wanted to seem too keen to reply, because females generally believe if we act too keen or too "easy", males will move on out of boredom. We believe that males prefer to do the chasing and above all love the challenge of a slightly unavailable female. It's not really playing games - just self - preservation. She may have wanted to message you back so badly but restrained herself because she really likes you and doesn't want to ruin prospectives at this early stage. However, on the other hand, she could have been telling you the truth. I have some friends who never have credit and this is a totally legitimate excuse!

Hang on - sorry I just re-read your post - do you mean she messaged you back one month after your original message? If so, this changes a few things. Perhaps she was seeing someone or in a relationship when your original message came through and she didn't want to seem unfaithful to her boyfriend. But perhaps, now they have broken up and she has remembered you and decided to give you a shot. Perhaps you were always in the back of her mind as the one who got away. I have done this very thing in the past. There was this guy I used to date and things ended weirdly. He then called me up a month or so after the weirdness and I didn't answer my phone because I was in a committed relationship. He also messaged me and I decided not to reply to him because he was asking to meet up with me. I did not want to hurt my then boyfriend because I really cared about him. When me and the boyfriend broke up, I remembered this other guy and decided to contact him. We went out for a while after that.
I agree. I definitely don't believe she has forgotten about you. Otherwise why would she have replied in the first place? I think you're right in suggesting that she wants you to "suck up to her" a little bit but more so, she just wants you to pursue her and not let go like the last time.
Yes - so go for it!!
I think you should look her up on facebook and leave her a funny message on her wall - did you two have any inside jokes or anything? Or if you don't want to do that, maybe neg one of her photos or something. Just keep it light and funny and then the ball is in her court. If she decides to respond to you, then that is awesome. If she doesn't, then move on.

Hope this has helped a littled bit. Good luck!!

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omg ! Sometimes the best PU advice comes from women !:P

I texted her about an hour after her text message this:
Heey Target! Good that you text me! I am laying naked in the sun on my rooftop reading men's health magazine, what are you doing? x


lol the above text was total bullshit :p I had a blast sending her that on my own. lol at least im original with it xD

anyway, she has not sent anything back. Also I tried looking her up on facebook, but I could not find her. I do believe she gave her real name, she just put herself on invisible or something I reckon.

My plan is to just wait if she replies, I hope she finds it funny.

Any insights anyone ?

EDIT: PS: Yes, it has been about a month or 3 weeks since I sent her that message. I nearly forgot I sent her that text.. But I must say.. I dunno, but.. I was thinking about her the other day, even in my sleep tonight then when I got that message, I thought it might be her and I was so happy it was
Strange isnt it ?:P

but I have no idea, how to take it from here. Girls usually string me along, or lose interest. unfortunately..

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Failure was never an option


Because girls don't like sex.. Yeah RIGHT!
Why else do you think girls have P*ssies

Haha glad you thought it was good advice!! Remember, we are the ones who are on the receiving end of all the PU lines and games so we do figure out a bit - we aren't as stupid as some men think!
Haha yes that is true.
Hmmm.... That is strange. Yes, she has probably put herself on invisible. I think it's a good idea to wait for her reply. The ball is now in her court so she can do what she likes - you have tried.
Yeh, it's weird how the world works!!
Like I said, I reckon just leave it and wait for her response. If she doesn't respond, well it's her loss. Move on and find a better girl.

I'm sorry to hear that girls usually string you along or lose interest - it gives nice girls a bad name! But you will find the one who is so into you... It may not happen straight away, but it will happen.

Some advice for this losing interest caper would be to just be yourself and be cool. Don't be too needy or clingy because that might scare some girls off. All the characteristics that turn guys off girls tend to also turn girls off guys. So be a man, stand up tall and be proud and confident of who you are.

Good luck!!

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