Ok so i`m clearly working on several cases on the same time to help me not over obsess over one chick, but this one is the one that would be my keeper.


This chick I knew her for a while, never really approahced her anything because I kept cutting contanct with her. Shes a work-o-holic, shes a model, photographer and make up artist so work is really on her mind. Problem is she has a bf. Been dating for a year and the guy is a stripper (Yeah wtf?) The chick is a HB , maight give her a 9.5. So I established an encounter:

Me: Hey wonder woman! howz your interesting life going?
Her: Hahaha!!! its paul right my intresting life goes pretty well but sooo tired you ?
Me: Same story. WHy so tired? Supper heroes need vacation?
Her: Well I dont sleep well these days + im working alot = tired
Me: Tsk tsk. Liar! I`m not there to keep you up at night so you have to sleep well.
Her: Hahaha nope just not able to sleep too much on my mind i guess
Me; I`d love to hear whats on your mind Jess (:
Her: Haha I dont know stuff! haha like singing school working etc...
Me: Hmm you`re really that passionate about your workk? Or your juist a work-o-holic haha
Her: Haha exactly !!!
Me: Ok Jess I`m really worried about your addiction I got to put a stop to this. Meet me for a cofee later this week.
Her: Loll haha sure !!! NO i`m not that bad
Me: Haha. That`s what all adicts say. First therapy starts monday, 7pm
Her: Right !!! haha
*phone sends random blank messages*
Her: Didnt recieve you have an iphone?
Me: My phone likes you already, sends you txts by itself. + 1 for you
Her: Hahaha lollllllll

Dident txt her from there. Called her the next morning:
Talked about how she was supposed to see me, she said she thought i was actually kidding. I clearly stated that not. She said her bf wouldn`t allow it cause hes to jelous, if i`d be a guy that would be only a guy-friend that would be cool with him (first indication taht she knows my intentions)
She counter offered to see me when she will be with her girl friends.
Sounded good:
Told her at the end:
"You know what I like about you? you`re so dedicated, you`re so motivated, so smart!... but too bad you`re a total douchebag."
She started laughing and got on defensive, so i told her goodbye"

Now whats the plan from here?

She's a door way, not a door mat. Take her up on her offer with her friends, BUILD your social circle through her, and ask when you can meet her BF to build a rapport with him.

This does a number of things:
1. She already likes you enough to give you her number, and laughs at what you say

2. She feels as though you are respecting her relationship, and when the BF hears about you wanting to meet him he will as well, leading to less hang ups about seeing you.

3. Her friends are going to be more receptive of you, because she is your social proof. Hot chicks generally have other hot friends, some piggies, but mostly HB. With the SP she gives you 50% of the work is already done.

4. By playing it cool since she has indicated she is loyal to her bf (or so she would like you to believe so far) you leave the door open for her if she ever ends it with him for whatever reason, which also lets her turn to you for support. Just becareful not to get in the F-zone (friends only) because then youre screwed.

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"Once you have achieved perfection, you have achieved failure." - Me

If she ever tries to set you in a situation where both you and her boyfriend are present that will mean she likes you and is seriouly considering you as a replacement. Be ready for that possibility as she will be comparing you with each other and it will be a one-off chance to shine.